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In NC, divorce law requires that couples separate for a year before the divorce degree can be granted. Therefore, in NC, her being separated for 15 months without actually being divorced is not that unusual.That her husband's clothes are still in the closet suggests the separation may not be complete; that you are not part of any family function suggests, possibly, that he still is.However, "concern" is not the word you need to be using."Communication" is the word you want, with her, with clear expectations of honesty and openness. I suspect you may be hoping more than you are actually asking for clarity about the state of the relationship. We can't help you with that part.

I was at my Mom's house in NC on my 2 week annual visit with my daughter. Ex acted weird before I left and I was puzzled by it. I received the paperwork in the mail along with a letter telling me that he had fallen in love with someone else.After a day of crying I consulted a lawyer here in NC (I was living at Ft. Drum, NY in post housing). Talked by phone to a NY lawyer and got the best deal I could. BTW he hasn't seen his daughter since then at his choice. She's 30 now and has only talked to him less than a dozen time.Edited : Added some location clarity.

This took place well after my divorce, we had a seven- year old son. My ex always fought to pay child support and he didn’t pick up our son on a consistent basis. None of us ever saw it coming.I had found someone I loved and he moved in with us. A year later, he had an opportunity to join a local and finish his apprenticeship in NC (where he was from). We packed up and went. My exhusband’s lack of interest of being a father went into my decision on moving almost a thousand miles away.After we were packed and gone my ex decided he now wants to have complete access to his son within 24-hours per our divorce decree. He launched a petition fighting the relocation. I was six-months pregnant at the time. By the time our case went into family court I was due for induction. Initial court hearing was on Monday and I was scheduled to be induced on Friday of that same week. Because and solely because I was on strict bed rest (because of all of this nonsense) he was awarded temporary custody. Folks, when this happens the tables have now turned against your favor. You now have to prove why he should NOT retain custody. That is when our nightmare began.I believe we were in court for almost a year a this point (this happened nearly 20-years ago). I am cooperating fully. My ex, however, is a different story. Once he realized he had to let social workers into his home and they would look into closets and drawers his cooperation ended, but continued with the custody.We flew in for Christmas (my husband, my six-month old daughter, and I). My attorney advises that I stay in town for court because there is a very good chance of getting him back. If I would be awarded custody she wanted me present for the judge (hearing was January 6th).We attend to our hearing. All of us anticipating the case be dropped at the request of the guardian ad litem due to lack of cooperation from the father. Prior to court, the attorneys and the GAL meet with the judge in his chambers to discuss the case.Judge and everyone comes out, court begins. The motion was made for the motion to be dismissed. Motion denied! (insert gasp here) However, due to the father’s lack of cooperation I am ruling that custody be changed from the father to the maternal grandmother. Court diss missed. BANG goes the gavel. We sit there with our jaws dropped asking wtf just happened. I turned to my mom and then chuckled while saying congratulations it’s a boy!How did this end? My ex was arrested for selling heroin to an undercover TWICE! He was held on a probation violation. Therefore, no bail was permitted. All while in jail he’s not dropping our case. The GAL tells me in America we are all innocent until proven guilty. He has only been arrested and has had not been tried. We managed to get his attorney talk him into signing our agreement pending his rights across the board. If he wanted any of them back he then would have to file a motion with the courts in NC.