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Consider my case.I have deactivated my social networking accounts for more than 8 months.I use mobile as less as possible. 30 minute quora+ 1-hour music. Some days only 1 hour of music.I don't go to/attend any family functions.I don't go to a family picnic. Well, this time I have to go due to my mom's request.I stay at 23×7 at home. 18×7 in my room. I only go outside for about 1 hour daily to get some fresh air and sunlight. It is a cold outside dude. Sunlight is needed.I don't hangout with anyone. Last I have visited the town's market on 5th December to fill Jee application form. Before that in the month of October.I don't know how to ride a bike. My friends tease me about this.I never go to restaurants to waste father's money.I don't buy unnecessary stuff, dresses.I have no shoe. I bought one in 2014. But as I grew older, it doesn’t fit me from 2016.Contact with friends-0, friend circle-0.Time to with family- 6 hours. I use 3 hours,other 3 hours goes for lunch, bath, dinner etc.TV- Nill. I don't watch TV or movie.Cricket match- Since 2014 I have never watched full innings.Study time - 12+/-1 hoursLearning time-2 hours. Total involvement time- 14 hours(12 hours syllabus+2 hours out of syllabus topics for a science student like philosophy, psychology, economics etc)And the most important for a foodie- I say no to heavy diet as it makes me feel sleepy.As I am a self-study student, I have to do more mental work as that of a normal student. So these sacrifices are worth if I will get my dream college.Thanks.[math]Tripathy[/math]

From my experience, there is one methodology that I have found to be consistently reliable to determine the likelihood of a high degree of narcissism.Now, keep in mind that this behavior, alone, does not conclusively indicate that the person you are dealing with is afflicted with NPD, which is a clinical diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder.Important to note, though, that when I have interacted with a disordered NPD, the maladaptive response by the narcissist has 100% manifested itself in some similar form or another.The easiest way to determine if the person you refer to is a narcissist, is to simply say no to them.Now, it can’t be over something trivial or mundane. What I mean here, is that if you have concerns that someone you are interacting with is a narcissist, politely refuse to accommodate something they request of you, especially if the request is important to them. Perhaps it is a dinner party they were expecting you to accompany them, or maybe it’s a work function that they were planning on bringing you along to. Maybe it’s a family function they invite you to join.Basically, enforce a strict boundary on something and explain that you are unable to shuck this important obligation.A healthy individual may be disappointed that you can’t join them, but they will certainly understand and accept the fact that you have other obligations aside from them, and they will respect your decision to honor your commitment that you made.A narcissist will not be so understanding. The narcissist is going to attempt to manipulate you into acquiescing to their request. The method of their attempt will vary, and is determined largely by their tendencies in relation to their narcissism, as well as the likely manipulations they believe will be the most effective for your personality type. Typical ploys will involve guilt tripping, sulking, withdrawal, silent treatments, pity plays… etc etc. Whatever tactic(s) they use, you can expect to defend your position vehemently and that you will have to work much harder to maintain the boundary that you just put up.This method has been very effective for me in dealing with narcissism once I learned the pervasive dysfunction underlying the problematic behavior. The narcissist cares about his needs over any other consideration. Thus, being denied what he perceives is entitled to him will be met with a lot of resistance and scorn. And since you’re the object of his denial, you will be the one to bear the fallout when he decides to make you payA2A

Down south India for many religious functions and very traditional marriages the meals are "served" for many people at a time and not the usual buffet which is the norm these days.First all the people will sit in their seats either on chairs in front of tables or on the floor! Then a banana leaf is placed in front of each person along with a glass of water. Then different people put different items of the meals in the leaf. In fact there is an order/sequence in which they've to be served as well as where exactly each item goes in the leaf! And finally the rice is served and ghee too! Then the Head of the family/function will request everyone to eat to their hearts content! More detailed info about Tamil customs here! Tamil cuisine.It takes anything from 10 - 15 minutes for the whole process to be completed and everyone will be just waiting and watching all those mouth watering delicacies. And normally the meals will be delayed due to the elaborate traditional functions/formalities and everyone would be starving by the time they sit at the meals.And the highest form of self control has to be exercised by everyone in those 15-20 minutes when no one is supposed/allowed to even touch/taste any of the times!! Sheer torture, if you ask me:(