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Because I cannot decide which one I actually find the very best, here are some good picks who are going to brawl for the title of Hanne Pluim’s SOTY.In the left corner we have “Naughty” by the duo consisting of Seulgi and IreneIn the second left corner we have “Tweaks” by girl group GWSNIn the first right corner we are met with “Another Day” by Stray KidsNext to them we have “Why Not” by the lovely girls of LOONAAnd descending from the skies we have IZ*ONE’s “Secret Story Of The Swan”Who will win and who will fall (find out when we burn the wall, sorry :3)? Find out in today’s special edition of: “The Battle Of The Stars.” Copyright ownerHello, ladies, gentlemen, enbys and more to the end of the year special of everyone’s favorite non-existent TV show: “The Battle Of The Stars”. During this fierce competition up to 5 contestants go face to face in a song battle to see whose song is the best, in my personal opinion. During this end of the year special only the best of the best have been invited tonight to this clash of the music to prove themselves not only to me but also to the watchers and readers at home. Without boring you with even more small talk, let the show begin!“Naughty” by Seulgi and Irene.“Ladies! How are the feelings tonight?”I: “Good, good.”S:” I’m very excited for this!”“Were you surprised once you got the invitation to come and perform here tonight?”I: “When we first heard that we were invited, I thought it was a joke. Red Velvet has been on the show a multitude of times and we even have plenty of trophies from here on our shelf but only us two? Was a genuine surprise because your bias isn’t even in our duo. We’re very honored to perform here tonight.”“What do you think makes your song unique amongst all the other contestants?”S: “I think that our song seems to be something that k-pop has been trying to do for a while but has miserably failed in time and time again: Making a good catwalk song. The instrumental may seem simple at a first glance but if you look deeper into it you might even seem to get some glitch hop vibes like in our other song “Monster”. The difference is that “Naughty” seems more cool and relaxed compared to our other track. The vocals seem to be the normal tea for SME but even with its simplicity, it can still leave an impact especially during the last chorus.”I: “I believe that lyrics wise, we don’t stand much chance against the others. *sad laugh*. The lyrics seem to have certain sexual undertones but if we’re staying PG clean today it could be about a boy discovering more about a girl. But, if you listen to the song and don't understand whack Korean it sounds like a nice party song to which everyone can vibe to. In general, the song seems a bit easily made but it can satisfy all of it’s listeners with its hooking beat and lyrics.”S: Seulrene fighting!“Fighting girls! Enjoy yourselves!”Well, those were our first guests of the night, I wonder who’s going to appear from behind the curtain now.IZ*ONE: “Secret Story Of The Swan”“Hi, hello! What are the thoughts of these girls on this grand festival?”Hye: “A bit stressful but I think that there is a big chance that we might come out on top.”W: “There’s no need to be stressed, unnie, we’ll just do our best and show them what we got.”“That’s the spirit! Would you like to show the viewers at home your favorite part of the song, Eunbi?”EB: Okay, 1, 2, 3“Whoah, that was nice? Now, what do you think are your chances of winning?”N: Our song seems to be a fan favorite so I wouldn’t be too worried actually. Most of our songs seem to have a very elegant vibe with a more relaxed feeling. For “Secret Story Of The Swan” it seems like we grabbed the steering wheel and gave it a 180 degree turn to the other side whilst still keeping our boat that stands for the elegance in all of our songs afloat. “Secret Story Of The Swan” gave us an opportunity to show the more powered side in ourselves whilst not leaving the roots of our concept. The beat seems to be very intense during the chorus and the dance break at the end but the verses seem a bit more tamed, creating a perfect balance. I think that the plot twist ending after the dance break can deliver the energy to keep on listening and the high note as well.”Hitomi: “The lyrics seem to take the simple story of love and make them into a fairy tale like fantasy. Hoping to be together with them in a certain fairy tale like paradise. I don’t think that they’re extremely powerful compared to the others but I think that the instrumental, killing parts in the verses and the overall vibes of the song can make up for that. Let’s remain positive until the end.”“Great! Thank you for your time. Good luck and try not to fall down the stairs.”The place felt so crowded with 12 people next to me. I hope that I can get a little break from that now.LOONA: “Why Not”“Or not. Good evening ladies, do you have something to say to your fans firstly?Yves: “2jin is real.”Heejin: “that’s a lie, fake news based on false rumors.”“Your cheeks tell a different story though, hah, for your comeback you took 4 different concept photos. Which was your favorite, Chuu?”Chuu: “I think that I liked the one where I was with a rose in my mouth the most. Everyone said I looked gorgeous then.”“I see no lie in that statement. But, what do you think of your song being nominated here?”JS: “When I first listened to “Why Not” in the recording studio I wondered “what kind of mess this is?” but soon I grew to love the song for its complete bonkers instrumental. The intro section especially makes you wonder “Why?”. I first thought it was the intro for our music video. For a supposed “empty chorus drop” it feels very filled with the very random Di Da Dam Di Dams but it works perfectly. The bridge seemed so out of place at first but now it’s my favorite part in the song. The instrumental really reminds me of a rocket launching or something loading to be launched.”ViVi: “Now that we’re on the topic of Di Da Dam Di Dam I think that our lyrics have a lot of chance to come out on top. The title suggests why not chase our dreams? And why not have fun or have a party? The song seems to be made in a more dark vibe but manages to stay joyful and fun even with its beats. There are many hooks and killing parts in the lyrics and I think that that’s what makes it so good. I was also surprised at how they managed to get even the members with cuter voices not made for these kinds of songs incorporated into the song. It was very creative.”“That sounds very optimistic, good luck and don’t try to cause any problems.”Hyunjin: “The second we get off camera I’m going to hit you Yves for saying that 2jin is re-.”Okay, half way done. Next act, come out!GWSN: “Tweaks”“Girls! What feelings are we experiencing on this grand night?”L: “I’m just still amazed that we’re all here standing together on the stage for this event. It’s honestly a miracle that we’ve been invited to something like this, I hope that Groos will also love to see our appearances!”“Sadly, SoSo couldn’t make it tonight, do you have something to say to her?”A: “SoSo eh, please take much care of yourself, we hope that you can join promotions soon again and we and Groos will always be waiting for your return. Please don’t lose hope and keep on smiling. We’ll win for you tonight!”“What are some opinions on your nominated song?”SR: “For as underrated as it is, I think that we might have a high chance of winning. “Tweaks” seems like a mix between a softer, slow song and a more fashion, catwalk style song. I think that it’s very creative from our producers to try and do something like this, especially in the deep house genre. It’s nice to groove to but it also has the possibility to serve as a song that you can listen to and lay back to forget all your worries for a second. Perfect fit for a cold day during winter, a windy day during fall and rainy days in spring.”SK: “The lyrics seem to talk about boredom and how we want more color in our lives. We want the rain to spread out and make colors to make us happy. We’re walking in our little universe to grow further, like we described in our other song “After The Bloom (Alone)”. The vocals aren’t something extremely impressive and aren’t supposed to completely blow away the listener, they’re made to comfort and ease the listener. The chorus is very addictive, I sometimes catch myself humming it in the shower.”“Those are some positive reviews, I wish you all the luck for tonight.”One act, just one act left. This can’t be that hard I hope.Stray Kids- “Another Day”“Never mind, it’s the entire circus. Gentlemen, how does it feel to be the only boy group present here tonight?L: “Actually, very surprised. The big boss upstairs is a very massive girl group stan and it takes her a long time to actually get invested in boy group, it’s just her preference. I should’ve seen it coming because this past year big boss has been talking about us a lot and always very positive. But still, getting invite to come here? A big honor.”“Were you surprised with the song that made the cut?”F: “I think everyone was a bit shocked to learn that “Another Day” was nominated for the program. The song itself is often forgotten among our other more heavy EDM/Trap based songs that get all the love and attention. Many fans think that “Another Day” is a lost treasure in our discography, and I couldn’t agree more.”“Now I’m turning myself to the mastermind of “Another Day”. Han, what are your opinions on the song?”J.ONE: “Pff, describing “Another Day”? I think that it’s our calmest song that we’ve released ‘till this day. Even in our early baby SKZ days we’ve not had something this tranquil. Although the most prominent instrument is a guitar there are still some synthesizer noises in the background during some parts to keep up the mood. The vocals seem to carry the entire song on its back, and I don’t think that big boss upstairs minds that at all.”CB97: “I think the lyrics speak volumes. In the comments I've seen that many fans can relate to what my first maknae wrote down. I’ve seen so many different stories that can relate to the lyrics. I think that big boss upstairs also likes it a lot. She seems to listen to it one too many times a day. Sometimes going over the lyrics for the 10th time on one day, it still kind of makes me sad. Even though it’s relatable as hell, it’s still sad. I hope that our music can make fans feel like they’re not alone in the mess that they’re in right now.”“Well, that’s nice! Have fun the rest of the night!’That concludes our interview segment with our battlers of this year! Without further wasting any time, let’s start the brawl of the stars!Just at that moment, a lighting bolt hits your antenna and your TV falls out.After what seems like ages of standing on the roof and trying to fix your connection with the transmission tower, the TV turns on again. And unlucky you, the fight’s just ended.Wow, in my years as a host tonight I’ve never seen such fierce competition and such strong fighting in months. This fight was extremely close but finally, we can congratulate the winner of this end of the year special of “The Battle Of The Stars.”!Congratulations to….LOONA with “Why Not”!KL: “Wow, just wow. I’m completely speechless. I can’t believe that we got our first major award since our debut. I’m still shocked after what happened on the field just mere minutes ago but, I think that all of us fought so hard to get this prize and it was all worth it.”GW: “HaSeul, I know that you’re watching this at home probably smiling and being so proud of us for our accomplishment but, we couldn’t have done this without you. Even if you weren’t here tonight in person, you gave us much courage beforehand to win this battle and sweep the award. Please take good care of yourself!”OH: “I think all the other competitors of the night also did a great job and I think that for everyone, it was already a great honor to even be here in the first place and to know that big boss praises you and loves the work you do.”People, that concludes the last ceremony of “The Battle Of The Stars” of 2020. Thank you for everyone who was present at the event and I hope to see everyone here back and healthy next year!Enjoy your day/night :3

1. Always assume the best.Whether or not you're an optimist, chances are, you find something personal in your S.O.’s actions when they disappoint you. It’s natural because, well, relationships are personal. But 9 out of 10 times (if not all 10), your person has no intention of upsetting you.“Especially when we’re already in an irritated state, we have a hair trigger for taking things the wrong way and assuming the worst,” says Gillihan. (And yet when our partner feels personally offended or attacked by something you do, you’re probably annoyed that they don’t just let you off the hook.) But keep in mind that “so many of our reactions are based on how we feel aboutourselves, versus how someone else feels about us,” as Gillihan explains. So try this: In the morning, tell yourself, Today, I’m going to choose the most benign interpretation for whatever comes my way.“This mentality gives you the freedom to get over yourself”—and can set an example for your significant other to do the same, he says. The result? You both can focus on all the good—and bounce back fast from any moments of accidental “bad.”2. Notice projections.Speaking of interpretations, one thing that can mess them up is a psychology term known as projection.Projection is, in short, when you transfer your own feelings about yourself or a situation onto someone else. While it's typically a subconscious habit, projecting leads you to assume that your partner feels a certain way when, in reality, they don't.For example, if you've been cheated on in the past and have trust issues because of it (I mean, fair), you might interpret your partner's "You're acting weird" comment as an accusation that you're being disloyal. When in truth, they're just wondering why you've been less talkative for the past two days.Whenever you can, try to pause and see a conversation or situation for what it really is, notice your own insecurities and assumptions (ask yourself: Do I know X to be true?), and do your best to let go of the idea that you know what your S.O. is feeling, says Gillihan. You'll never truly know unless you ask them.3. Stop should-ing on each other.Should is perhaps the worst word in the English language, at least where relationships are concerned. “It creates a sense of injustice—that something ought to be different from how it is,” says Gillihan. But most of the time, what follows the verb is a personal wish or preference, not an actual truth.If you believe at all in fate, it helps to just trust that whatever your partner did or didn’t do happened because that’s how the universe was aligned (for some reason beyond anyone's knowledge). If you don’t, that’s totally fine—but reframing your mindset can help you escape any sense of bitterness or indignation. So express what you want as a desire: “I wish you could come home earlier so we could spend more time together,” or “I ’d love it if you helped more with the dog.”Anyone can debate a “should,” notes Gillihan, “but who can argue with a wish?” Even if they can’t make it happen, they won’t feel as if they’re doing something wrong right off the bat.4. Shush up and listen.You think you listen to your other half, but...do you?Listening is a verb, not just a passive "you're talking and I'm not" process. It requires silencing your own thoughts and feelings so you can truly tune in to someone else's."Everyone wants to feel heard, but a lot of couples don’t feel heard as time goes on, and that creates a lot of problems," says Rachel Sussman, LCSW, a relationship psychotherapist in NYC. "Of course, it's important to express yourself, but you first have to step back and listen."Sussman's suggestion? After your partner tells you how they feel, repeat back to them what you understand them to be saying. Then say, "Do you feel like I heard you now? Do you feel understood?" If they say no, ask them to please help you get a better grasp on what they're saying.And remember this: Even if you don't agree with your partner, you want to validate their feelings. You are a totally different person with different experiences and perceptions, so you won't always see eye-to-eye—but if you want your relationship to grow, you should always, always let them know that they aren't wrong for feeling the way they do.5. Look for opportunities for sincere thank you's.Research shows gratitude is the secret to a happy life—and it's a necessary ingredient for a happy 'ship, too.Think about it: Relationships take work, and like at the office, not being acknowledged for putting in time and effort can make you feel unappreciated and even resentful.So take notice of moments when your partner does something even remotely selfless and kind for you, and thank them for it. Acknowledge things that they wouldn't expect you to point out, like picking up your favorite bottle of wine on their way home or making quinoa instead of their preferred rice because you're cutting back on refined carbs.This content is imported from {embed-name}. You may be able to find the same content in another format, or you may be able to find more information, at their web site."Saying thank you can go a very long way, and it's a reciprocal effect," says Gillihan. Meaning: Make an effort to show more gratitude toward bae and they will likely do the same toward you, amping the loving feeling.6. Partner up when life gets crazy.“When we’re overwhelmed, we often bring so little to our relationship,” says Sussman. Read: You flake on seeing the new Marvel movie with your partner on Sunday so you can get some work done, or you hardly even kiss them before bed because you're so exhausted.“The right equation is to be your best and most loving self at home, so the strength of your bond gives you strength to handle everything else.” Preach!“Always ask yourself if you’re putting as much into your relationship as you are into your career, exercise goals, friendships..."When you know work is about to heat up, tell your S.O., “I’m about to go through a really busy time, and I’m nervous I won’t be able to put the energy into our relationship that we both expect. What else can I do to help us this month?” The solution may be to cut back on social engagements or to schedule breakfasts together instead of dinners you know you’ll end up missing.“Always ask yourself if you’re putting as much into your relationship as you are into your career, exercise goals, friendships,” Sussman adds. “Then make shifts as necessary.”7. Create a shared goals calendar.You have goals, your partner has goals—but what about ones you can pursue as a couple? It’s important to envision achieving or doing something as a unit to keep your bond superstrong, says WH advisor "Dr. Chloe" Carmichael, PhD, a clinical psychologist in NYC.“Create a calendar for financial, travel, or hobby goals,” she says. (Like: Visit Japan, learn salsa.) “This helps you see yourselves together in the future, encourages discussion around lifestyle choices, and reminds you to support one another with accountability and by working off each other’s momentum.”Plus, planning a future beyond the big stuff (ahem, babies and shiny new houses) can be just plain fun—and lift you out of the boring day-to-day.8. Prioritize intimacy.I'm not talking about sex here, though that is incredibly important in a relationship, too. I mean the kind of intimacy that comes from physical touch, genuine eye contact, mutual smiling, etc.—all the tiny moments that make your heart swell."These are the things that remind your partner that you're in this together, that you choose them and are happy you did," Sussman says.Touch your S.O. when they're making coffee (a quick hug around the waist does the trick...just be careful not to make them spill), look at them in the eyes when they tell you about their day, take showers together, sleep naked, snuggle...you know, the PG stuff that makes the day-to-day that much more special."If you notice that’s declining, it could be the time to take a moment and talk to yourself about why—is it on your end, theirs, or both?" Sussman notes. If increasing your own initiation of this type of intimacy doesn't lead to them doing the same, you may want to consider seeing a couples therapist, who can help you both figure out underlying issues.9. Proactively check in.Repeat after me: No matter how well your person knows you, they will never know exactly what's going on inside your head at all times. So don't expect them to...ever. You'll save yourself a lot of drama by voicing your thoughts once you've had a chance to process and collect them, Dr. Chloe notes. (And I co-sign.)That said, you probably harbor a lot of thoughts that you may never voice for one reason or another—and your partner could be doing the same. Perhaps they don't feel like you'd receive them well, or that their voicing concern wouldn't lead to beneficial change, anyway, so they suck it up and move on.While that's not a huge deal on an occasional basis for minor things (like, them being annoyed that you can never decide what you want for dinner), holding things in regularly won't end well.10. Take time to see them.The security of a long-term relationship (and marriage, obviously) is freaking fabulous. But a common price for that is how “used to” your partner you become. “There comes a point when we’re looking at a projection or memory of the person, not who they are in 3-D at that moment,” says Gillihan. “That leads you to make assumptions about what they need based on their past—not their present.”And, of course, people (yourself included) evolve as time goes on, and when you're with someone for the long haul, it’s on you to recognize how. So whenever you can—on your next date night, while they’re making the coffee, after they get back from a run—take a second to stop and really see your partner with fresh eyes.Think of three kind or impressive things they did recently, and feel the feels for them. Then instead of “I love you,” try saying, “I see you.” Their reaction could be pretty stunning.Marissa Gainsburg Marissa Gainsburg is the Features Director at Women's Health, where she oversees the magazine's news-meets-trends Warm Up section and Love & Life section.

My hazing story is very embarrassing, thats why I decided to go aanonymous.I was 17 years and went to first years of college. I had been alloted a room in girls hostel with 2 senior girls. Back in that time I was lIke a petite girl, only 5 feet long and weighing roughly 40 kg. These two girls are 2 yrs older and huge compared to me, one is lIke 5 feet 6 and other is 5 feet 10. I was kinda perfect to be their hazing toy.Ok in the first night of stay, they ordered me to introduce myself, but the surprisingly they asked me to do it in nude. I was shocked. I was quite a shy girl and even rarely been nude in front of mom. They ordered me in very strict manner and somehow I was affraid. Finally I went nude, it was very embarrassing but it was just starting. I was trying to hide my private parts with hands, these girls asked me to hold ear with hand so that I cant use my hands to hide myself. They asked me various question regarding my life and family and I answered them standing nude with holding ear.Now after the introduction they started explaining rules. I had took a paper and pen to note down them. I am mentioning few rules which i could memories.Before leaving for the classes and after coming back from classes to room, I had to stay without cloths. That was very schoking for me.I have to take permission from them whenever I need to go outside of our block, that too, they will decide my dress code. In other words they will act lIke mom and grandmom.I can roam within the block, but I had to be topless and can only wear panty. No nude outside room, thankfully.The most embarrassing one, I had to took permission whenever I need to use toilet, be it for loo or shower or whatever. What more, I have to keep toilet door unlocked, so they can have a look whenever they want.No makeup till they allow it.Another embarrassing one, had to clean pubic hair daily.If I go for toilet they will check if I cleaned myself properly. That was really humiliating. After having pee, I had to wait for them, till they come and clean my private parts with tissue paper.Needless to say, they were entitled to punish me for any reason. Several punishments were making squats with holding ear, murgi position, on knee, stand in corner. The most embarrassing one was where I had to lay on their lap over my belly and they will slap on my ass, later came to know it is known as spanking.I need to address them DIDI ( in hindi, older sister).There are few other but these one were most embarrassing.Infact staying nude with them and get treated lIke a baby girl was itself very humiliating.They left no stone unturned to make me embarrassed. Infact during my naked introduction, I broke into tear. One of them kinda forcefully make me sat on her lap lIke a baby girl and started counselling me.2nd night senior girls from other room started visiting each room. They were 3rd year girls, senior to the girls in my room.It was lIke 6-7 girl at first. The girls from my room made me wear a diaper. When these 3rd year girls arrive, one of them asked "why are you wearing diaper? Cant you control your pee? " and all laughed. Another girl put her hand inside diaper and moved her hand inside it to check whether I did pee in it or not. One of them asked me to show them how to pee in diaper. Utter embarrassing. They made me pee in diaper. Then I have to show them by removing diaper that I actually did it. Then they started questioning me about my subject (history). For every wrong answer they will slap me on my face, make me sqats with holding ear, pulling my ear etc. I was already nervous for being naked in front of 7-8 girls. Before leaving they again made me put on wet diaper. Uhggg.Another group came after 15-20 min. There first question was also same "Cant you control your pee?". \U0001f623\U0001f623On knowing that my diaper is wet, they asked me to remove it, one of them ceaned my pvt parts with tissue paper. I dont know what joy they were getting by treating me like baby girl.Back in those days, I had very small breast. One of the girl show her large breast by lifting her Tshirt and even made me touch her boobs.Like this almost 4-5 groups came there one by one. Some were bit sympathetic too. But I dont know, may be its due to my short height, they all treated me like baby girl. Few of them took me over their lap and carried normal conversation and even pampered me as I was in teary eyes. But it was full of embarrasement.3rd day, groups were keep on coming, I faced them in nude, but now its become less intense. That night, 2 bit older girls came there. I came to know that they were doing PG from there but staying outside as paying guest.One of them was wearing saree, traditional indian dress. I was standing nude in front of them answering their question. Suddenly the girl, who was wearing saree asked me "are you feeling hungry" I didnt answer it, and she declared "yes you are, come here over my lap". I had to comply her. When I sat on her lap, she hold me and make me lay over her lap. My short height and less weight was really helpful for them. Then she told "ok now baby needs some milk. Mama will feed her". To my surprised she opened her blouse and asked me to suck her nipple. I was so embarrased and helpless. She literally breastfeed me, though there was no milk. While I was in such gross position, I figured out someone is moving fingers around my vagina. My face was under her dress so I cant figure out who was that, but it was very awkward. Then they call another 2 fresher girl from adjoining room. By the corner of the eye, I saw both of them were also nude. One of them was wearing a tie in her neck, other one is totally nude. While I was breastfeeding, PG girls started asking random question to freshers. After 10 min or so, the girl asked me to stop it and join them. The other two freshers are from Arts discipline. One of them was almost of my size but other one, who was wearing a tie, was much taller and bulky than me. Now those PG girls asked the fresher who was of my size to get over the lap and try breastfeeding. The same girl who breastfed me took this girl on her lap and started feeding from her other breast. I saw her moving her fingers around the fresher's vaginal area who was on her lap. By seeing this I started feeling more embarrased, realising the fact how silly I was looking while doing this.Other PG student, asked the taller fresher if she have any idea how to breastfeed a baby. She said no. Then both the PG student asked her to try with me. And me again laying over my classmates lap and did suck her nipple like a baby. It was very embarrassing. After 5 min the breastfeeding episode was over and both PG student left. Now the seniors from my room took control. They busted out on taller girl, who was wearing tie. They told her how dare she wearing the tie. Remaining two of us was made stand in a corner with hands holding the ear. Both seniors were now busy with this taller girl. First they made her drink almost 2 liter of water at a stretch. Then they started to made her doing physical excercise like push up, sqats, jumping jack. Whenever she did some lapse, they used to slap her butt. Me and other girl was meely an audiance. It lasted for 30 min. They finally leave her when she got fainted and started begging for go to pee. They allowed her but when she came back, they cleaned her private part with tissue paper lIke they do to me.Almost all day it was similar routine. Each time some random senior came, asked some silly question, and punish us the way they want.They did some group activity too, like nude running, nude catwalk. Even nude catfight. I was beaten easily in first round. The girl who won the cat fight was allowed to wear her undergarments for rest of hazing day.It lasted for about 3 week. After 3 week they throw us a fresher party and did make apolozy for all the hazing.After that party, clothing restrictions were revoked but seniors still had power to punish us and that include nude punishments too. However after 2 -3 months its become null and void.I never told about all these to my parents, but few girls left the hostel and college.After almost 10 yrs, I still feel shy while remembering those days, however after hazing period, all seniors became very friendly.Well later I also hazed my juniors, and that invoved nude punishments too, but may be not that extent that I received it.