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You are not at fault.It seems your friend has perceived a situation to be factual.We all have our own opinions, we all have the right to express our opinions.Though when we start turning perception into reality we have problems.It seems that your friend has other issues. Don't Let his miss perception of your opinion become fact. Stand up strong and defend your name.We will always come across people with different views, and as you get older these views may change slightly with experience and observations.A good friendship should be able to take a healthy debate, if not then he's not a strong friend.Also online friendships will always have problems like this as there is no visual cues or body language to help us assess properly the intend of a person.We then fill in this missing information with perceived views.If perception is left unchallenged it becomes ingrained into belief.Try talking to him again, tell him what your opinion is on the subject and it's ok to disagree.If his behaviour continues then it may be that he's not a real friend, rather he an online acquaintance.Continue your life, be polite, be strong and true to yourself.Peace ✌

A2A: Denise Copeland thx for the question.This is a challenging question!I will answer it from two perspectives; firstly, how you can attempt to avoid a Narcissist and secondly, why this so often won’t work first time around!People are divided on the issue, some believe they can be avoided, many survivors will attest that it is extremely difficult……..if you have a certain predisposition, I will elaborate…..Narcissists bury their true self-expression in response to early injuries and replace it with a highly developed, compensatory false self.”They create an alternate persona to their real self, they come across as grandiose, “above others,” self-absorbed, and highly conceited.In our highly individualistic and externally driven society, mild to severe forms of narcissism are not only pervasive but often encouraged. However, those who are real ASPD’s take this to ‘another level’.Part I: Avoiding Narcissists:Posts have already gone over the key pointers to help you repel the lure of Narco-balls so I’ll bullet list them:Go slow and Pick Your RelationshipsAvoid Being Sucked In by love bombingDo not reveal to much of yourself too quickly***Really important: Johnny Do's answer to How does a narcissist choose his supply?Know Your Rights and Set BoundariesBe AssertiveDeploy Consequence(s) to abuseFor a more detailed explanation of Red Flags read: William Gorder's share of Martha Helene Jones's answer to What are the biggest signs that someone has narcissistic personality disorder? in Cluster B UnmaskedPart II: Why avoiding a Narcissist may not work:Narcissism is difficult to detect for certain and that it is a process of joining the red flags.Clues which slowly build a picture that on the ‘balance of probabilities’ something is very wrong. Often it is our instinct that we ignore before we are educated. When we are awake, we rely on it like an ‘early warning system’ to identify inconsistent behaviour.Saying you can avoid Narcissists is like telling a child in a candy store not to buy any sweets.You see avoidance sounds simple, it’s sounds rationale but it much more difficult to achieve when your targeted by a Narcissist. Normally targets are unaware of pathalogical behaviour….they still believe in ‘soul mates’, the one’, a twin flame (insert as appropriate but pass the vomit bucket while your at it!!’ Don’t get me started on the New Age Spiritual Mind washing BS!!!You would think a simple caution would suffice such as:“If you see X,Y or Z behaviour then get out, there’s something wrong.But hey if it were that simple Why are their millions upon millions of people who didn’t avoid them?As humans we are biologically wired to avoid danger, our system is fear driven so why did we ALL get scammed! Back to the candy store…..Narcissists are ‘shape shifters’, they study you meticulously, listen astutely, list every insecurity and every doubt. They catalogue your desires, needs and wants. THEN like a 3-D printer they create the ‘perfect’ partner a sort of 3-D Hologram. The sweetest candy you ever did see!!!This illusion is designed to make you fall in love but really it’s a reflection of you; your insecurities and doubts, your likes and interests (“oh you love Origami too, I can’t believe it!!”). You cannot believe how similar you are OMG!!’Nothing about the Narc was permanent or real except their deranged behaviour.The love bombing is one of many Psy-Ops that ASPDs use to spellbind you. They overload your senses and eventually paralyse you. Your given as much:ComplimentsAffectionAttentionSexAdulationAs you can possibly desire!!!!!Your system is saturated with feel good hormones, shutting down all objective rationale thought. Suffocating in sensual desires you lose all sense of doubt. How could this not be real? You ask.Combined with focused isolation separating you from dissenting voices of friends and family slowly you are brainwashed and your in the matrix living in virtual reality.You were plugged in and blindsided with subtle suggestive comments that create:Insecurity about your relationshipConfusionSelf doubt through gaslighting and cognitive dissonanceDissociation: you learn to ignore your esteem needs by avoiding confrontationThe matrix creates a reflection of the person you desire in your dreams…….when they appear you think your lottery ticket has come in. This is easier to do than you realise. Believe me….they had you at “Hello”.Sprinkle in some co-dependency…….To complicate matters co-dependent/ (people pleasing) characters tend to be drawn to Narcs as there is a symbiotic neurosis - which meets the emotional needs of the giver and taker.Co-dependents self esteem comes through giving and ASPDs will only entertain people who serve their needs. So it a perfect match in the beginning. However, both are emotionally disregulated and have extremely unhealthy attachment patterns.Narcissists understand very quickly whether your a ‘good fit’…….they will start off testing you quickly to assess your compliance. If you do not meet their needs, they will not invest in you. This is normally the only way you can avoid them.Q: Is really possible to avoid them?The reason why reading and listening to people who understand NPD, Bi-polar, Psychopathy etc is so important is because……….it helps you spot Red Flags. In time with enough reminders you will be able to spot them quicker and identify familiar behaviour patterns. However, this is difficult to do first time around. When you are nieve and innocent and your head is full of fairytales it’s almost impossible. You may slip the net a few time’s but if your a serial online dater……your chances eventually run out.Now let me ask you…..do you feel lucky!!! Well do you……..Reality test:Questions:How long after the relationship did it take you to figure this out?How many times did you have to re-read the same message, (written a hundred different ways) IT WAS A CON for you to get it!How long did the cognitive dissonance last after you went NC and how many: He loves me” He loves me not” iterations did you go through in your head every single friggin day!!!The longer you engage with a Narc the greater the probability you will slip into a trance and lose your ability to detect abuse.So it’s a difficult balance knowing when to ‘cut and run’. You have to detect a problem quick enough before…………..your so far in you can’t get out. How come?Brainwashing changes how you think:I-believe the most damaging aspect of our engagement with ASPDs is how they damage us psychologically.Often sufferers don’t even realise until the discard……..how deep this psychological damage has been. They have been brainwashed and don’t realise how much their self esteem has crumbled, how much of their old self they have lost (it comes back in time).How do they do it? The process of brainwashing:The essence of the brainwashing process is to isolate victims from their prior connections and destabilise their identity.Then……… consolidate a new, submissive identity within a rigidly bound new framework in which the target’s behaviour is carefully monitored and controlled.From your experience, you know how ‘smooth’ a Narc can be, how mentally agile they are, how easily they can justify their behaviour and ‘shape shift’ into the victim.Looking back you realise they used gaslighting, triangulation, sweet /mean cycles / silent treatments etc……to make it appear as though your the abuser, you were at fault.These techniques are designed to make you constantly anxious (walking on eggshells) and questioning yourself and your memory.The Narc constantly said you were too: (FILL IN THE BULLET POINTS):ControllingJealousAggressiveCheapFatLazyUglyStupidNice!UntrustworthyNRC TACTICS 101:Above are only 10 points but each one could be used in different ways to break you down. Each of these words can be used to gaslight you.All the Narc has to provide is a fabricated example or ask you do something that ’sets you up’ giving them the opportunity to call you…..(fill in the blanks).Once your in the DV Stage this will be combined with a meltdown by Narcky because your now conditioned to ‘not fight back’ you just have to sit there and listen to it.Q: How easy is that to do?How devastating is this? Not very….the first time!……….but when you’ve listened to this year after year…..it’s absolutely crippling both mentally and physicallyWarning ⚠️ This relentless assault on your self esteem will eventually break you…..no matter how strong you are…..It’s just a matter of time.DISCLAIMER:There is no guarantee even when your educated on personality disorders that you can spot a pathological person every time. Don’t get ahead of yourself!For those who have been to the “edge’ and come back, your soul is so scarred that it leaves an indelible impression. Your gut stays on permanent ‘alert’ for abuse and manipulation. Your innocence has been ripped away from you and that stays with you for life.You heal, you recover but you never forget!!!This is a sixth sense that; unless you’ve been systematically tortured, is very difficult to develop.To understand the manipulations and how subtle they are, to realise that you’ve been emotionally raped, your soul and secrets were stolen by a ‘love thief’, man you can’t read that sh*t out of a book.Don’t be telling me, you know already, like you be reading a menu! ASPDs are shape shifting apex predators. This is their reason d’etre. If you think your ahead of them, your just lying to yourself!Ask any veteran of full blown ASPDs and I’m sure they will side with me. Being over confident is what a Narcissist relies on in their targets.Stay vigilant and listen to your gut, if your not sure about someone then best to be prudent and play it safe. Get out, while you still can.All the best,Share with your followers, get the word out!!!J.R.

Every interview has to be handled smartly(Customized Answers)!I attended ICICI PO exam batch 40 this year, I cleared the exam. Fast forward, I completed behavioural Assessment sent by them on email as well.I was scheduled for the GD and PI round on 06th Dec'17.Let me brief you, I filled the online application form on ICICI bank website as usual I apply for a company through their career portal. It wasn't special for me. I didn't even read the employment terms defined by bank too. Actually, they mentioned it clearly that selected candidate will have to take 1 year PGDM (Banking and Finance) through Sikkim Manipal University and then 2 years Probation Period as PO and then 2 year bond with designation Assistant Manager at any branch of bank(anywhere in India).I got to know the initial package and these terms when I entered the hall for GD. I nailed the GD and was one of the candidate to go for PI.Here is kind of conversation between me and interviewer:-I(Abbreviation)- interviewerMe- Hello Sir (After entering the room)I- Hello, please sit.Me - Thank you ( Expecting first stone from interviewer in form of question)I - As I see in resume that you are pursuing M.C.A, why do you want to join ICICI bank. Do you know that you will be enrolled for PGDM if you are selected.Me- Yes I know, I actually came to know through a candidate who was sitting above in GD hall.I - (Shocked) You didn't know that before you came for GD/PI.Me - I said honestly NOI - Ok! He then started asking some questions based in my interest and skills I have. He later came on work experience. You are working with Accenture, why do you want to leave as it is a giant IT company.Me- I answered that I don't like the service industry I am in with Night shift and all.I- Do you consider ICICI bank will not give you such shifts and do you know what would be your salary in hand?Me - Answered honestly again, Yes I know it would be less than what I am getting now. Also added that I came to know about Salary structure from same person who explained the employment terms.I - He was stunned that how can someone come for a Managerial position with no information about terms.Me- But I was too honest where I felt like I messed up the whole interview.I - He suggested me to keep the field in which I am working. He asked about interest and activities that I do in free time.Me - I told everything that I like to do in free time and added Quora as well.I- Quora is bullshit. Why do you waste your time?Me - Being honest, I questioned him what did he feel bullshit in Quora because I don't find anything wrong in Quora. It is something where I spend time in mostly reading answers of other users.I- He didn't agree to what I explained about Quora. At the end, he gave me brief information about what a candidate will receive as Stipend after joining (While pursuing PGDM).Finally, I was told that ICICI will send email if one is selected (They told this to everyone as their recruitment process)I think I will not be selected but I did wrong in answering everything correctly and honestly.