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Nope. Why would I see her as that? Imagine for a moment that their positions were reversed:Imagine if when they were kids, it was muggleborn Snape who had a younger snotty muggle brother, and halfblood Lily who refuses to even acknowledge Snape’s brother purely because he is a muggle who thinks magic is weird. Lily would be called a prejudiced jerk.Imagine that Snape and Lily are hanging out when snotty younger brother crashes their party and insults Lily’s clothes, only for Lily to drop a branch on him, and the brother bursts into tears and runs away. Snape demands if Lily hurt his brother, and Lily tries and fails to lie that she didn’t. People would praise Snape for standing up for his family over a person who hurt his brother, and call Lily a jerk her physically hurting his flesh and blood over a petty comment.Imagine if while hanging out at Snape’s house, Lily sees Snape’s brother’s letter and rifles through it because she’s condescendingly surprised that a muggle managed to communicate with wizards. Again, Lily would be called a jerk for going through someone else’s stuff, on top of being condescending.Imagine that on the train ride, Halfblood, muggle-disparaging Lily says Snape had better be in Slytherin at a time when the world was at war with Slytherins who want to eradicate muggleborns like Snape. And Jane Potter overhears and talks with Serene Black about how she would rather leave if she got put in Slytherin, but she wants to be in Gryffindor like her mother. Lily makes a passive aggressive comment about if Jane would rather be brawny than brainy. Everyone would call Lily a jerk for taking a comment about what house Jane wants to be in personally and insulting her for it.Imagine that halfblood muggle-disparaging Lily gets put into Slytherin, and makes friends with Malfoy who is well known for being a muggleborn Hater. Futhermore Lily is eager to prove herself so starts making up spells for people she doesn’t like, including levicorpus, which spreads and becomes popular. She hangs out with people who call people like Muggleborn Snape mudbloods, and is nothing but dismissive when Snape talks about how her friends attacked one of Snape’s housemates for no good reason with dark magic. But instead of listening to Snape about why that is definitely a red flag considering he is again, a muggleborn himself, Lily makes excuses that it was just a laugh and then brings up Snape’s housemate who has nothing to do with the conversation. People would call Lily a jerk for essentially selling out Snape in order to be popular with people who hate people like Snape, AND being a bad friend by dismissing Snape’s legitimate upset at him doing so.Imagine that Lily gets jealous over Jane and her friends being popular, and starts to stalk Jane’s constantly ill friend who she sees one day being led to the Whomping Willow by the school nurse, suspecting that she is a werewolf, in what she admits is an attempt to ruin JANE’S reputation. Imagine that Serena tells her she just has to prod the knot, so Lily sneaks out her dormitory past curfew, sneaks out the castle to the grounds, sneaks towards the Whomping Willow which is out of bounds, and follows Serena’s instructions to go follow a werewolf on a full moon night. Only to get saved by Jane. People would first of all call her stupid for doing all of the above, but also say she was being a jerk for targeting Remi, and getting an innocent bystander mixed up in Lily’s plan in the first place, all out of petty jealousy.Also imagine she tries to use this incident to justify why her friends shouldn’t be called out for targetting muggleborns like Snape when Snape points out that her friends are horrible people. People would call her a jerk for deflecting from Snape’s legitimate criticisms of her friends.Now imagine that after exams Jane attacks Lily for her stalking and almost ruining Remi’ life; and she uses the very spell that Lily invented to humiliate people she didn’t like and spread to her Death Eater Junior friends. Imagine Snape running up to get Jane to leave her alone, only for halfblood muggle-disparaging Lily shrieks “I don’t need help from filthy little mudbloods like him!” People would rightfully call Lily a jerk for being predjudice AND stabbing her friend in the back with both that predjudice and because Snape was coming to help her.Imagine after this Snape refuses to talk to Lily anymore, so Lily camps out in front of his dormitory until he relents, but Snape sticks to his guns and realizes that Lily is a lost cause because she plans to join the very people who have been terrorizing with Wizarding world and massacring muggles like Snape’s family and people like Snape himself. People would praise Snape for cutting off someone who is clearly toxic, and call Lily a jerk for being toxic in the first place but acting as if she’s entitled to being forgiven anyway after taking their friendship for granted and refusing to change.Imagine that Snape and Jane become headboy and girl, and start dating, and Lily jealously never looses an opportunity to hex Jane, so Jane returns in kind.Imagine then they all leave Hogwarts and immediately Lily joins the Death Eaters who have continued their terrorism and massacre of people like Snape, while Snape and Jane join the Order who work to stop the Death Eaters.Imagine years later, Snape and Jane have married, while Lily becomes a spy for Voldemort. One night Lily hears a prophecy about the person who will defeat the Lord of Terrorists, about to be born, and to whom, so Lily gleefully runs to her master with the prophecy. Snape and his wife have a baby, and Voldemort decides that it’s SNAPE’s baby.Imagine that Lily goes to Dumbledore and displays clearly that she doesn’t give a fuck about Snape’s family that her own actions have put in danger, but just about getting Snape to safety. Imagine Dumbledore calls her out for this, and it’s revealed that Lily has delusions that if Snape’s wife and baby are murdered, Lily can get back with Snape again, comforting him over his loss while having him all to herself. Everyone would call Lily an evil jerk for secretly hoping she can use the death of Snape’s family and his misery to get back with Snape, and for being the one who put them in danger in the first place.Now imagine that Lily becomes a double agent, but Snape and his wife are betrayed and murdered anyway, leaving their daughter behind as the only survivor, and Voldemort destroyed for now. Lily displays grief over Snape, but when his daughter is brought up she acts like the girl is a fly. People would recognize that Lily is a jerk who has no empathy for the lives she has helped to ruin and got taken away, not for the last remaining piece of Snape.Now imagine eleven years later, Lily is a professor, and Snape’s daughter comes to Hogwarts. Lily knows she is still Snape’s daughter, she even has Snape’s eyes. But the girl looks like Jane and is in Gryffindor like her parents. So on the very first feast Lily glares at the girl, then on their first potions class, she immediately starts harassing Snape’s daughter Helena, purposefully grilling an innocent eleven year old who had done nothing wrong, just to humiliate her, with added jabs about how Helena is a ‘celebrity’ for the way she survived the attack that left her parents dead. Their death being something Lily herself helped to bring about.Everyone would rightfully call Lily a jerk for how she is now taking out her hatred of Jane on an innocent girl who is also all that’s left of the man that Lily loved, and proceeds to bully and mistreat the girl for six more years even while that girl continuously helps to defeat Lily’s old master and his servants who keep coming back in different forms and putting everyone in danger over and over. And instead of recognizing this, Lily continues to act like a jerk to a girl who continues to be a hero.All of the above are all things that LILY would get critized for, so why is it that people are so bent on excusing Snape for ACTUALLY DOING all the above!?In none of the above situations is Snape to blame for Lily’s behavior, nor is is a fault when Snape points out how Lily is being a horrid so-called-friend. So why does LILY suddenly turn self righteous for pointing out when Snape ACTUALLY did all those things.And Snape doesn’t display hypocrisy in any of those examples either, so how are you going to pretend that LILY is a hypocrite when Snape ACTUALLY does all those things!?These Lily bashing questions are getting ridiculous. If the situations were reversed, this would not even be a discussion we are having!Whenever Lily is dealing with Snape, she is dealing with a person who insults others, reacts to her sister with physical violence to petty insults, discounts her sister for being a muggle, starts fights with classmates, and hangs out with creeps who target and attack people like her for being muggleborn.With that in mind, Lily has every right to call Snape out for his behavior. If the situation was reversed and Lily had done any of the same then Snape would equally have had the right to call her out.

I lost my love a few months ago, he died of cancer. When he was alive, he used to be very cautious of his looks, hair, diet.He refrained from eating street foods, his lunch would be wrapped in cloth rather of fresh wrap as he believed fresh wrap would yield harmful chemicals to his food.He used to take 45–50 minutes to bathe. His skin used to turn immediate red if he touched it with nail. Such a sensitive person he was. Undoubtedly he was brought up with all the comforts and luxuries of his life.On his last day, I was sitting beside his father in hospital waiting outside ICU. His father said to me“Beta 53 saal ki is poori life me maine or mere parivar k kisi member ne dukh naam ki cheez nahi jaani, or aaj kismat ne ye dukh dia hai, mere bachche ka jeevan sankat me hai or main poora paisa laga kar bhi use nhi bacha pa rha, dukh diya to esa diya jiski bharpaai bhi nhi ho payegi”He kept going on and on, talking about his son, it was very hard for me to control my tears but I did. I was literally crying inside listening to his each single word. Such an emotional talk it was.He died. When he died, he had nothing left into his body,his body seemed a skeleton, his hair already began to fall when he was alive due to chemotherapies.He was unable to bathe himself. His parents helped him do the daily routine tasks.How pathetic it was to see a man dying in such a state, he would have never imagined throughout his life.Since the day he left, I just keep making me accept his departure. Its really hard.I daily prayed to God to give him back to me in any form, I just wanted him. I wanted to love him, care him.Few days ago, i found a puppy below my car outside my home. It was shivering from cold. So damn cute, he was hardly 4–5 days. Highly scared to face the world. He was rolling on the sound of every vehicle passing even if at a distance.It was so cute that I could not resist bringing it inside my home. Although I have never been animal friendly but I decided to help this baby of dog. We all grew so comfortable with it and started enjoying his company from its very first day.I bathed it, fed it, loved it, trained it to jump over the stairs. It was quiet brainy. It started to recognize all of us within 2–3 days. It was the first being we all wished to see first in the morning and last being we all wished to end our day with. I literally used to pick it in my arms, take it high to sky and then to ground. I never treated it as a dog but a human. His face used to express his happiness, his anger and every single emotion.Seeing it, I thought Nishu had returned. I wanted to love him more so God had sent this puppy to my life. I wanted to rescue Nishu, so I was given a chance to rescue this puppy. All my wishes were coming true. Infact that puppy loved me and my mother the most. It used to sit into my arms.But as it is said, happiness does not last long. The puppy suffered lock jaw paralysis attack on its 10th day. And just before an hour from this incidence , it had been repeatedly trying to come to me, it even sat and slept besides me but i went in to my room as a matter of usual routine.I woke up at night to check if it is alright. I sensed it was not in its box, it was lying paralysed under my car, left leg was bleeding, unable to move its neck, its whole body wet in its own saliva, its jaw locked, everything it ate was vommited. It was the most pathetic site I had ever seen into my life.I burst into tears and called my brother for help, we tried many things but it did not improve. It passed away next morning.It died shedding all his cuteness, seemed almost a skeleton while dying, it's mouth and eyes blocked and blackened.I suffered a heartache once again!

I can give you the right answer to this question. I am a liberal woman. I just happen to be Indian. Now the word liberal in the Indian interpretation of English words, means : promiscuous, immoral not bound by rules. No one wants to openly identify as a liberal for the negative connotation that it holds. I am liberal as in open minded, not perpetually open vagina.Why wouldn't I marry a 'foreigner' aka fellow human being across the world, if I am open minded and liberal?A. I wouldn't be there in the first place.My parents know that I know that I have a liberal mindset. They, like most other Indian parents wouldn't even send the girl to study in the US or UK or wherever. This is what my own parents have said " You read their books, watch their TV, you are becoming like them. If we send you to the US, you will marry one of them". Er, I watch TV from China and Spain as well. What does that mean?They never sent me to a land of Caucasians. Even though you see a lot of Indians in the US, they are mostly male, and the females are married or have family in the same state. So the only reason my mom would consider sending me abroad, is that now that my cousin has married and settled in a US state, I can stay at their place and go to the nearest college. Will be I able to date that way? No. I can't have dinner with someone. I have to eat at home. My phone situation with my parents, wherever I go=this meme.South Indians, ESPECIALLY KERALITES hate anyone who isn't a Keralite, and they especially hate Americans. Keralities have additional patriotism to their state. When my Keralite friend suggested to her father that she could apply for Omani nationality since she never left Oman since birth, he turned that down.Even if a green card was offered to my father for free, he wouldn't take it. He would never set foot on that land. He thinks that the police kill people, everyone has guns, and they shoot anyone, and everyone is immoral. Immoral=Extramarital sex, high divorce rates and casual dating. Not to mention the millions and millions of illegitimate, out of wedlock children. In a country where blood relations are valued so much, being a bastard makes you a dirty blooded, less than human being, at least according to him.So if most girls can't make it to the US or Europe, they won't be marrying out of the country either. The girls who do make it there are already, engaged,married, or their parents intend to marry them off into the same community, but to a groom abroad. Or, they return to India, get married, and bring their husband on a dependent visa. Especially true of Keralite Christian women. My parents wouldn't even send me the local college run by Americans. "Too many westerners there. Our people are a minority. " aka This is dangerous, why aren't most of us from our community, caste, and state there? P.S. All other Indians don't matter.They are referred to as "those people". India is 600 very different tiny countries merged into one after The Indian Independence , btw. None of us have much in common with the other. So if marrying an Indian from another state is taboo, how is marrying a foreigner easy?B. Most Indian girls meet other liberal Indian guys in college... and marry them, because it is a long term thing. Indians don't view marriage as some sort of thing you quit when you are bored. They don't say things like "I am not the same person anymore", "My life has changed and I can't take it", "There are too many arguments in this marriage and I can't take it". They argue, and then say "What about the kids?" "What will people say?"Then patch up, because a divorcee's children have no chances in Indian society. My math tutor once turned down a prospective bride because her parents were divorced. "This means that she has a negative view of family life. She comes from a broken home. She might divorce because her parents divorced. She probably doesn't know how to make a marriage work". According to Indians, all behaviour is genetic. My friend's parents have never seen eye to eye. But she wouldn't have a chance to find a 'decent' family to marry into if her parents ever divorced.That is why there is such a high concentration of Indians in select colleges like University of Buffalo, SUNY Buffalo, Rochester Institute of Technology, etc. One Indian goes there, and the others follow. It's like the place has been marked safe. So Indians date among themselves.The other single females, you may see, available for dating, are probably from a very liberal (North) Indian family. Those people love Caucasians and idolize white skin. They consider this a catch. But I know a Bengali family which was very open to their daughter getting engaged to a Caucasian. Some Bengalis are liberal.Gujratis, who form the 99% (I bet) of all Indian Americans, already have a huge dating pool online, of people born and raised in the US or UK. Indian face, Western lifestyle, 'moderate' values. It's a better deal than going to one extreme or the other. An example: My liberal friend, now a father, studied in Australia. One day he mentioned ironing his own shirt. In my family at least, guys don't do ANY housework. As a joke, I asked, well.. doesn't your wife iron it for you? To which he replied,"she's my wife, not my maid. I can iron my own shirts, I do it everyday". Indian girls are blessed to find someone like this. He had a 'love' marriage, found her online when he was 16. It was some chat app that triggered a long distance relationship. Very rare situation. Another example is a UB couple from two different states in India. A lot of rapport between them.If I want to live in the US, for example, my parents said I can find an Indian living there, who is accustomed to the lifestyle there. College is a good idea for a place to start with.C. Indians abroad are stuck with other IndiansOnce you reach e.g.the US and hang (out) with Indians there is no way you can say Hi to an outsider. That noose is ever so uptight. Pun intended.Either you are in the group 24x7, which works like a Greek society(you have no other social life), or you are out of it. I asked a friend why he didn't join the Global Village trip in freshman year. His reply : "Oh that one.. the one organized by Arabs?" I realized at the moment, that there were mostly Arabs, but that didn't bother me until he pointed it out like I was out with aliens. You can't beat Indians at racism. Never.Once I made it into a Indian group outside university, I was stuck with them until I was bored to death. Bollywood songs, everyday. Lots rap song-ish, dirty cheap content(Honey Singh, anyone?). Or overly romantic songs. Love is God, love is life,yada yada. Oh! how come you all get into arranged marriages then ? I love folk and classical songs, but who wants to listen to them? Bollywood is definitely India's way of fulfilling fantasies. Thank God for radio edits of English/American, some Arabic, Chinese or Portuguese songs,or else I would have memorized every single song playing in their cars. Discussion topics: Movies in the theatre, stupid sex and sexist jokes, anything intellectual? Nope. If there was no Indian Cinema, India would be the saddest place on earth. Thats all they can talk about. Singers and actors and movies. Same language. BORING! If you use a little "textbook" English, maybe because you are used to it from everyday con, they will say "You can tell simple also na", and call you out for showing off, or acting colonial etc. I just happen to read more I AM SO SRRYYY. (see what I did there? )D. Indians abroad will object to you socializing with foreignersIf you are looking for Indian women and you spot an Indian group, they will AVOID you. Say hi and then bye. Indian guys will make sure you don't talk to the girls for long, and will watch out for you wandering near the girls. Any Indian girl talking to you, they will classify her as promiscuous too. I once had a situation, a couple of Caucasians liked to talk to me. I was once sitting next to one, and then a desi walks in and said this sarcastically, and angrily "Bada sahi jaa rahi ho" (You are definitely walking down the right path). Well, at least by your standards,I didn't have sex like one of your bros did to his girlfriend. Oh wait. That's acceptable because they are desis?E. Indians/Desis(blanket term for anyone from the Indian Subcontinent) are not sure if you are a long term option, given the high divorce rates in such countriesThis what my Desi professor, married to a New Zealander of Russian descent told me that out of his wife's friends she is the only happily married one. For 12 years. He opines, that Western men miss their singleness terribly, and abandon their wife and kids to start anew, as they not commit for longer than 5 years. On the other hand, many of my friends are happily married to Western people(or are Western couples). It is who you choose that matters.One of my Western friends opined that its the intimacy that keeps relationships alive. Sex is the biggest thing for some people, whereas if you read about this Jewish Indian couple, they have a different take on things. “A family can run as a peaceful unit only if the husband and wife grow beyond themselves and put the family ahead of their personal and selfish interests,” ... like sex, and others. When your spouse is a workaholic, divorce isn't the option,unless s/he hates you and ignores you on purpose. Take the high road. Or else you can be married 10 times and you can divorce 10 times.Ehud and Vatsala Sperling: Committed for Seven LifetimesVatsala SperlingF. The question of faith, educating children in a faith, burial, and meeting in Heaven for an interfaith marriage."If I marry you, since you are not born Christian, I may not meet you in Heaven. My 6th grade teacher married a Jew and was always concerned about meeting him in heaven". I heard this from someone. It is obviously not because of the Bible, but what happens after religion turns into madness. People use a single line from the Bible implying that man and woman should not unequally yoked. When Thinking About Marrying a Non-BelieverBut, that isn't the only line in the Book of Corinthians.In the book of Corinthians, Paul the chronic bachelor, advises men not to abandon their non-Christian wives, and vice versa. He says that the non believing spouse will be brought to God by the believing spouse and that the children will be brought to God because of a believer in the family. 1 Corinthians 7:13 And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him.So, are you telling me that in the same book, Paul decided to contradict himself ? No, that's not possible. If I am a workaholic and my husband is happy go lucky we could still be unequally yoked. But, we all have a choice in what we believe. And the Christian link above mentioning one line and not the other verse, is a way of manipulation, if not selective perception. People influenced by this, Indian or otherwise may be opposed to interfaith or intercultural marriage.On the question of burial, find the link below:Can I be buried next to my Jewish husband? - BBC NewsG. Marriage and timingIndian girls, especially south Indians are married by 23 or 24 years of age. You graduate from college, get a masters in a year, and get married - sometimes RIGHT after or during finals week. In Spain, finishing high school, getting married, going to college, and having a baby exactly at the time of graduation is considered very cool. You have achieved both motherhood, and education as a married woman.Why?Because when your youngest child graduates college, you'll only be 50. Not literally about to die and unable to share the great moments of your child's life, marriage graduation, having a baby. You still have the energy to deal with it all and support your child financially/emotionally throughout life. His or her older siblings will be settled and also there for him or her.Whereas in other cultures like in the US or UK, people marry in their late 30s to 40s, especially males. But there are some states in the south where marriage at 18 is common. Yes, the world is full of contrasts. Unless from a very traditional family, you will see people delay getting married, and with that sort of late timing you may not interest an Indian girl who faces a lot of pressure to be married "on time". My cousin's wife was married to him at 23 when he was 27. But let me tell you, you need energy with kids and they are a great joy. They are not a prison sentence. He's happier than most of his friends.H. Marriage and ageIt is seriously taboo for the guy to be younger than the girl. So be careful when you approach the girl.The practice of mixed marriage is becoming common, but slowly.Mixed Marriages and a ReferralDark skinned and brainy Indian girls are not favoured because of the "Fair and lovely obsession". White people find tanned skin a beauty.My Sister Is A PHD From Germany And Nobody Wants To Marry Her. The Reason For Her Rejection Will Make You Sick In The StomachA white guy won't make you live with his parents but an Indian guy will, and won't even WARN you of how it is like. Christine Johal's answer to Have you ever known a white woman who's been in an interracial relationship/marriage with an Indian guy?and there are good things about it too.. just not for this answer though :)Btw, if you feel like I have gone a bit too far with the stereotypes, please note that I mentioned contradictory points to those too. Anyhow, this is a general(ised) idea of things.