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Hulk Hogan (or Terry Bollea) is fascinating character to study, and I had the opportunity to interview him in person for my book, Conspiracy, which examines the decade-long conspiracy that Peter Thiel waged against Gawker won decisively by funding a lawsuit on Hulk Hogan’s behalf.On the one hand, Hogan is friendly and charismatic like any celebrity. He’s been working crowds for 40 or so years, so he knows how to get you to like him and play the character he needs to play in a given situation. He showed up to the room I was interviewing him in a few minutes late (because he’d been bombarded by fans in the lobby) and he was wearing a shirt...with a huge drawing of his face on it. He once left me a voice message that started with (and this is an exact transcription): “Yo, yo Ryan Mania Hogan brother giving you a call.” So in some ways, he’s exactly what you’d expect.He was also earnest and vulnerable in my conversation with him—a guy who had been through a lot and had his life turned upside down by his own choices and mistakes (sleeping with his best friend’s wife, saying a number of racist things while he did so), as well as a pretty appalling betrayal. You could see that in his testimony during the 2016 jury trial and it’s why the jury liked him so much.That all being said, I think the best way to describe him is as a fighter—and one who is incredibly resilient at that.I mean, his life story is unbelievable: the fat, awkward son of a pipefitter, he travels from the docks of Port Tampa, Florida, to become one of the most famous characters in American culture. At twelve years old, he is already six feet tall, and has only one friend: his music teacher. He tries to make a career in music after high school and community college but struggles to support himself. He gets a job loading and unloading cargo at the docks to make ends meet. He begins training to be a wrestler at twenty-three. He gets his first match a year later. He’s the young upstart. The older guys don’t want him around.You might even see it as a story of success not unlike Peter Thiel’s—but the blue-collar version and with a different ending. He carves out a niche for himself. He goes from professional wrestler to movie star to icon. He’s so well liked he can call everyone “brother” and get away with it.And it would be the media outlet Gawker, in that infamous case, that would severely underestimate Hogan, and the type of opponent they made in humiliating him. After leaking an edited clip from his sex tape, they would dismiss him as a cartoon character, and predict they would settle with him. They assumed they would throw some cash at him, and he would go away.What they missed is some of the darkness in Hogan. After all, this was a man who went through some hard times, most of them self-inflicted.Back in 2007 after his then-wife, Linda Hogan, declare their marriage essentially over, Terry would sleep with his best friend’s wife, a fling that would completely forget about it for five good years. He had plenty to occupy his thoughts anyway. His troubled son would crash his car and nearly kill a friend a month after Terry would sleep with his best friend’s wife. His wife would file for divorce three months after it.Both events would send his life into chaos.He would find himself in the bathroom, gun in hand, finger on the trigger, bottle on the counter, family gone, wondering how much pressure it would take to release a round that would end it all.Something like that changes a man’s soul, stays with him no matter what good may come later.And there were more signs, though, if Gawker had wanted to look, that they might have made an enemy who would be difficult to appease.The mansion that Hogan filmed his reality show in had once been worth $25 million. It sold in 2012 for $6 million. His wife had taken 70 percent of their marital assets in the divorce settlement and promptly settled in with a younger man.Remember: This is the man who got to play the hero for a living and now all of that is gone. And here some New York blog was humiliating him by parading his best friend’s betrayal across the World Wide Web and putting his naked, aging, balding body on display in a sex tape he had never asked to be in.He was a man with little to lose. The kind of person to whom you wouldn’t give a singular obsession, and the kind of person whose singular obsession you likely do not want to be.I asked the founder of Gawker if he feels like he misjudged Hulk Hogan, but even now I think he cannot admit it. Peter Thiel was after all the one behind the conspiracy, so he gets all the credit. Yet Hogan deserves some, too. He was the one who charged ahead. He could have have accepted any of the settlement offers that would be forthcoming, who didn’t need to and probably shouldn’t have filed the lawsuit in the first place. It probably would have been smarter for him if he hadn’t— he might still be in the WWE Hall of Fame if he had walked away when the setbacks started.It cannot be said that Gawker was not warned though. Hogan’s personal attorney makes many attempts to explain to Gawker’s lawyers who his client is, what motivates him, what kind of man it takes to make it as a professional wrestler, where the act might be fake but two bodies hurling each other down against the mat is real.Did Bollea’s many surgeries signify nothing to them? Did they think the injuries were fake, too?And I want to close with one final anecdote that illustrates his fighting nature. There is an exchange between Charles Harder, Hulk’s lawyer, and Seth Berlin, Gawker’s lead counsel, after one of Gawker’s early legal victories in the case. Once again, Gawker thought that this ruling would finally put the matter to bed. Seth approaches Harder. “Where’s all this going? How long are you guys going to be at this?”He gets his answer: “Until my client is bankrupt or until you guys give up.”And that’s Terry Bollea, better known as Hulk Hogan, in a nutshell.My new book Conspiracy: Peter Thiel, Hulk Hogan, Gawker, and the Anatomy of Intrigue, which the New York Times raved about, is out now. Not only is the book an epic page turner, it’s designed to be a deep meditation on strategy and power inspired by the decade-long conspiracy engineered by the billionaire Peter Thiel to take down Gawker. Order your copy now.

Having lived in U.SA. and having visited the U.K. I think we Australians have adopted customs from both countries. We Australians used to be more British, we observe many British holiday customs such as Good Friday,Easter Sunday,Easter Monday, the Queen’s Birthday and Boxing Day. American’s only observe Independance Day, Christmas Day and Easter Sunday. The majority of holidays are bank, post office and school holidays. Australians have more paid holidays and long weekends. We have better pay and working conditions.Sadly, Australians have adopted trends from American films and television. Americans don't. Main stream American children do not dress as portrayed in films and television. Generally, most Americans are more polite than Australians. Children speak to their parents and adults more respectfully. I lived in the Mid West and loved it. I visited North East Rhode Island and people there were also very polite.No American youngster from a decent family, would wear baggy pants and baseball caps backwards. When my husband visited Australia, he was surprised at the way Australian people are so lacking in good manners and at how so many of our youth wear clothing of the Big City slum street gangs portrayed on film and television and even the speech has been copied.Australians have basically become copycats of film and television because we now have more American content than British content on television and in films.What happened to the speech of Australian Culture?Australian Government have also adopted from American trends. There is so much poverty in America since unions have been abolished, work place health and safety is lacking and to report such results in dismissal, working conditions are poor, wages are astoundingly low and most employed people are employed as "casual or part time” manufacturing has left America and is now in 3rd world countries. Private Health insurance is essential, yet unaffordable to most. Crime is increasing because of poverty and sadly this is trending in Australia also. The divide between those who have abundance and those struggling for survival is widening.There are so many great aspects of American customs we could benefit from, such as teaching children to know how our government operates by teaching ore of our history, and our rights and laws And how they came to be. To be more patriotic. To fly our flag proudly, to celebrate our freedoms more. I loved the American customs of street parades, and Memorial Day and how at every sporting event the National Anthem is sung together. The pledge of allegiance is recited in each classroom every day before class begins. I left America five years ago to reurn to Australia and I miss the wonderful American customs.It concerns me that Australia is becoming more like America in that unions are being destroyed and working conditions are also being weakened. We no longer have the manufacturing industries we once had.It concerns me that there our population is greater than the availability of jobs to sustain.It concerns me that our health care structure is becoming less available, our veterans are not supported well enough, our education system is not as of the high standard that it once was.Australia is more and more becoming politically, like the 51st Satae of America.

As long as man has been alive, he has been collecting little sayings about how to live. We find them carved in the rock of the Temple of Apollo and etched as graffiti on the walls of Pompeii. They appear in the plays of Shakespeare and the ceiling beams of Montaigne’s study. Today, they’re recorded on iPhones or in Evernote. (Or, if you’re like me, they become tweets.)But whatever generation is doing it, whether they’re written by scribes in China or commoners in some European dungeon or simply passed along by a kindly grandfather, these little epigrams of life advice have taught us essential lessons. How to respond to adversity. How to think about money. How to meditate on our mortality. How to have courage.Personally, I’ve been gathering great quotes like the ones you’ll find below for over a decade. Whenever I come across an inspirational quote somewhere (and by the way, that somewhere is almost always a book), I transcribe it onto a notecard and enter it into my commonplace book. That way I’ll have it at my disposal later on, to potentially use in my writing, or just in case I’m in need of some quick inspiration.Here are some of my favorites that span some 21 centuries and 3 continents. Each one is worth remembering, having queued in your brain for one of life’s crossroads or to drop at the perfect moment in conversation.Fundamentally, each one will inspire you to become a better person. If you let them.“We must all either wear out or rust out, every one of us. My choice is to wear out.” — Theodore RooseveltAt the beginning of his life, few would have predicted that Theodore Roosevelt even had a choice in the matter. He was sickly and fragile, doted on by worried parents. Then, a conversation with his father sent him driven, almost maniacally in the other direction. “I will make my body,” he said, when told that he would not go far in this world with a brilliant mind in a frail body. What followed was a montage of boxing, hiking, horseback riding, hunting, fishing, swimming, boldly charging enemy fire, and then a grueling work pace as one of the most prolific and admired presidents in American history. Again, this quote was prophetic for Roosevelt, because at only 54 years old, his body began to wear out. An assassination attempt left a bullet lodged in his body and it hastened his rheumatoid arthritis. On his famous “River of Doubt” expedition he developed a tropical fever and toxins from an infection in his leg left him nearly dead. Back in America he contracted a severe throat infection and was later diagnosed with inflammatory rheumatism, which temporarily confined him to a wheelchair (saying famously, “All right! I can work that way too!”) and then he died at age 60. But there is not a person on the planet who would say that he had not made a fair trade, that he had not worn his life well and not lived a full one in those 60 years.“It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” — EpictetusThere is the story of the alcoholic father with two sons. One follows in his father’s footsteps and ends up struggling through life as a drunk, and the other becomes a successful, sober businessman. Each are asked: “Why are you the way you are?” The answer for both is the same: “Well, it’s because my father was an alcoholic.” The same event, the same childhood, two different outcomes. This is true for almost all situations — what happens to us is an objective reality, how we respond is a subjective choice. The Stoics — of which Epictetus was one — would say that we don’t control what happens to us, all we control are our thoughts and reactions to what happens to us. Remember that: You’re defined in this life not by your good luck or your bad luck, but your reaction to those strokes of fortune. Don’t let anyone tell you different.“The best revenge is not to be like that.” — Marcus AureliusThere is a proverb about revenge: Before setting out for a journey of revenge, dig two graves. Because revenge is so costly, because the pursuit of it often wears on the one who covets it. Marcus’s advice is easier and truer: How much better it feels to let it go, to leave the wrongdoer to their wrongdoing. And from what we know, Marcus Aurelius lived this advice. When Avidius Cassius, one of his most trusted generals rebelled and declared himself emperor, Marcus did not seek vengeance. Instead, he saw this as an opportunity to teach the Roman people and the Roman Senate about how to deal with civil strife in a compassionate, forgiving way. Indeed, when assassins struck Cassius down, Marcus supposedly wept. This is very different than the idea of “Living well being the best revenge” — it’s not about showing someone up or rubbing your success in their face. It’s that the person who wronged you is not happy, is not enjoying their life. Do not become like them. Reward yourself by being the opposite of them.“There is good in everything, if only we look for it.” — Laura Ingalls WilderLaura Ingalls Wilder, author of the classic series Little House, lived this, facing some of the toughest and unwelcoming elements on the planet: harsh and unyielding soil, Indian territory, Kansas prairies, and the humid backwoods of Florida. Not afraid, not jaded — because she saw it all as an adventure. Everywhere was a chance to do something new, to persevere with cheery pioneer spirit whatever fate befell her and her husband. That isn’t to say she saw the world through delusional rose-colored glasses. Instead, she simply chose to see each situation for what it could be — accompanied by hard work and a little upbeat spirit. Others make the opposite choice. Remember: There is no good or bad without us, there is only perception. There is the event itself and the story we tell ourselves about what it means.“Character is fate.” — HeraclitusIn the hiring process, most employers look at where someone went to school, what jobs they’ve held in the past. This is because past success can be an indicator of future successes. But is it always? There are plenty of people who were successful because of luck. Maybe they got into Oxford or Harvard because of their parents. And what about a young person who hasn’t had time to build a track record? Are they worthless? Of course not. This is why character is a far better measure of a man or woman. Not just for jobs, but for friendships, relationships, for everything. When you seek to advance your own position in life, character is the best lever — perhaps not in the short term, but certainly over the long term. And the same goes for the people you invite into your life.“If you see fraud and do not say fraud, you are a fraud.” — Nicholas Nassim TalebA man shows up for work at a company where he knows that management is doing something wrong, something unethical. How does he respond? Can he cash his checks in good conscience because he isn’t the one running up the stock price, falsifying reports or lying to his co-workers? No. One cannot, as Budd Schulberg says in one of his novels, deal in filth without becoming the thing he touches. We should look up to a young man at Theranos as an example here. After discovering numerous problems at the health care startup, he was dismissed by his seniors and eventually contacted the authorities. Afterwards, not only was this young man repeatedly threatened, bullied, and attacked by Theranos, but his family had to consider selling their house to pay for the legal bills. His relationship with his grandfather — who sits on the Theranos board — is strained and perhaps irreparable. As Marcus Aurelius reminded himself, and us: “Just that you do the right thing. The rest doesn’t matter.” It’s an important reminder. Doing the right thing isn’t free. Doing the right thing might even cost you everything.“Every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him.” — Ralph Waldo EmersonEveryone is better than you at something. This is a fact of life. Someone is better than you at making eye contact. Someone is better than you at quantum physics. Someone is better informed than you on geopolitics. Someone is better than you are at speaking kindly to someone they dislike. There are better gift-givers, name-rememberers, weight-lifters, temper-controllers, confidence-carriers, and friendship-makers. There is no one person who is the best at all these things, who doesn’t have room to improve in one or more of them. So if you can find the humility to accept this about yourself, what you will realize is that the world is one giant classroom. Go about your day with an openness and a joy about this fact. Look at every interaction as an opportunity to learn from and of the people you meet. You will be amazed at how quickly you grow, how much better you get.“This is not your responsibility but it is your problem.” — Cheryl StrayedIt is not your responsibility to fill up a stranger’s gas tank, but when their car dies in front of you, blocking the road, it’s still your problem isn’t it? It is not your responsibility to negotiate peace treaties on behalf of your country, but when war breaks out and you’re drafted to fight in it? Guess whose problem it is? Yours. Life is like this. It has a way of dropping things into our lap — the consequences of an employee’s negligence, a spouse’s momentary lapse of judgement, a freak weather event — that were in no way our fault but by nature of being in our lap, our fucking problem. So what are you going to do? Complain? Are you going to litigate this in a blogpost or an argument with God? Or are you just going to get to work solving it the best you can? Life is defined by how you answer that question. Cheryl Strayed is right. This thing might not be your responsibility but it is your problem. So accept it, deal with it, kick its ass.“Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one.” — Marcus AureliusIn Rome just as America, in the forum just as on Facebook, there was the temptation to replace action with argument. To philosophize instead of living philosophically. Today, in a society obsessed with content, outrage, and drama, it’s even easier to get lost in the echo chamber of the debate of what’s “better.” We can have endless discussions about what’s right and wrong. What should we do in this hypothetical situation or that one? How can we encourage other people to be better? (We can even debate the meaning of the above line: “What’s a man? What’s the definition of good? Why doesn’t it mention women?”) Of course, this is all a distraction. If you want to try to make the world a slightly better place, there’s a lot you can do. But only one thing guarantees an impact. Step away from the argument. Dig yourself out of the rubble. Stop wasting time with how things should be, would be, could be. Be that thing. (Here’s a cool poster of this quote).“You are only entitled to the action, never to its fruits.” — Bhagavad GitaIn life, it’s a fact that: You will be unappreciated. You will be sabotaged. You will experience surprising failures. Your expectations will not be met. You will lose. You will fail. How do you carry on then? How do you take pride in yourself and your work? John Wooden’s advice to his players says it: Change the definition of success. “Success is peace of mind, which is a direct result of self satisfaction in knowing you made the effort to do your best to become the best that you are capable of becoming.” “Ambition,” Marcus Aurelius reminded himself, “means tying your well-being to what other people say or do . . . Sanity means tying it to your own actions.” Do your work. Do it well. Then “let go and let God.” That’s all there needs to be. Recognition and rewards — those are just extra.“Self-sufficiency is the greatest of all wealth.” — EpicurusA lot has been said of so-called “Fuck You Money.” The idea being that if one can earn enough, become rich and powerful enough, that suddenly no one can touch them and they can do whatever they want. What a mirage this is! How often the target seems to mysteriously move right as we approach it. It calls to mind the observation of David “DHH” Heinemeier Hansson who said that “beyond a specific amount, fuck-you money can be a state of mind. One that you can acquire well in advance of the corresponding bank account. One that’s founded mostly on a personal confidence that even if most of the material trappings went away, you’d still be happier for standing your ground.” The truth is being your own man, being self-contained, having fewer needs, and better, resilient skills that allow you to thrive in any and all situations. That is real wealth and freedom. That’s what Emerson was talking about in his famous essay on self-reliance and it’s what Epicurus meant too.“Tell me to what you pay attention and I will tell you who you are.” — Jose Ortega y GassetIt was one of the great Stoics who said that if you live with a lame man, soon enough you will walk with a limp. My father told me something similar as a kid: “You become like your friends.” It is true not just with social influences but informational ones too: If you are addicted to the chatter of the news, you will soon find yourself worried, resentful, and perpetually outraged. If you consume nothing but escapist entertainment, you will find the real world around you harder and harder to deal with. If all you do is watch the markets and obsess over every fluctuation, your worldview will become defined by money and gains and losses. But if you drink from deep, philosophical wisdom? If you have regularly in your mind role models of restraint, sobriety, courage, and honor? Well, you will start to become these things too. Tell me who you spend time with, Goethe said, and I will tell you who you are. Tell me what you pay attention to, Gasset was saying, and I can tell you the same thing. Remember that the next time you feel your finger itching to pull up your Facebook feed.“Better to trip with the feet than with the tongue.” — ZenoYou can always get up after you fall, but remember, what has been said can never be unsaid. Especially cruel and hurtful things.“Space I can recover. Time, never.” — Napoleon BonaparteLands can be reconquered, indeed in the course of a battle, a hill or a certain plain might trade hands several times. But missed opportunities? These can never be regained. Moments in time, in culture? They can never be re-made. One can never go back in time to prepare for what they should have prepared for, no one can ever get back critical seconds that were wasted out of fear or ego. Napoleon was brilliant at trading space for time: Sure, you can make these moves, provided you are giving me the time I need to drill my troops, or move them to where I want them to be. Yet in life, most of us are terrible at this. We trade an hour of our life here or afternoon there like it can be bought back with the few dollars we were paid for it. And it is only much much later, as they are on their deathbeds or when they are looking back on what might have been, that many people realize the awful truth of this quote. Don’t do that. Embrace it now.“You never know who’s swimming naked until the tide goes out.” — Warren BuffettThe problem with comparing yourself to other people is you really never know anyone else’s situation. The co-worker with a nice car? It could be a dangerous and unsafe salvage with 100,000 miles. The friend who always seems to be traveling to far off places? They could be up to their eyeballs in credit card debt and about to get fired by their boss. Your neighbors’ marriage which makes you so insecure about your own? It could be a nightmare, a complete lie. People do a very good job pretending at things, and their well-maintained fronts are often covers for incredible risk and irresponsibility. You never know, Warren Buffett was saying, until things get bad. If you’re living the life you know to be right, if you are making good, solid decisions, don’t be swayed by what others are doing — whether that is taking the form of irrational exuberance or panicked pessimism. See the high flying lives of others as a cautionary tale — like Icarus with his wings — and not as an inspiration or a source of insecurity. Keep doing what you’re doing and don’t be caught swimming naked! Because the tide will go out. Prepare for it!“Search others for their virtues, thyself for thy vices.” — Benjamin FranklinMarcus Aurelius would say something similar: “Be tolerant with others and strict with yourself.” Why? For starters because the only person you control is yourself. It’s a complete waste of time to go around projecting strict standards on other people — ones they never agreed to follow in the first place — and then being aghast or feel wronged when they fall short. The other reason is you have no idea what other people are going or have been through. That person who seemed to rudely decline the invitation you so kindly offered? What if they were working hard to recommit themselves to their family and as much as they’d like to have coffee with you, are doing their best to spend more time with their loved ones? The point is: You have no idea. So give people the benefit of the doubt. Look for good in them, assume good in them, and let that good inspire your own actions.“The world was not big enough for Alexander the Great, but a coffin was.” — JuvenalAh, the way that a good one liner can humble even the world’s greatest conqueror. Remember: we are all equals in death. It makes quick work of all of us, big and small. I carry a coin in my pocket to remember this: Memento Mori. What Juvenal reminds us is the same thing that Shakespeare spoke about in Hamlet:“Imperious Caesar, dead and turned to clay,Might stop a hole to keep the wind away.O’ that that earth which kept the world in aweShould patch a wall t’ expel the winder’s flaw!”It doesn’t matter how famous you are, how powerful you are, how much you think you have left to do on this planet, the same thing happens to all of us, and it can happen when we least expect it. And then we will be wormfood and that’s the end of it.“To improve is to change, so to be perfect is to have changed often.” — Winston ChurchillWhile this is probably not a Churchill original (he most likely borrowed from Cardinal Newman: “In a higher world it is otherwise, but here below to live is to change, and to be perfect is to have changed often”), Churchill certainly abided this in his life. He’d even quip about his constant change of political affiliation: “I said a lot of stupid things when I worked with the Conservative Party, and I left it because I did not want to go on saying stupid things.” As Cicero would say when attacked that he was changing his opinion: “If something strikes me as probable, I say it; and that is how, unlike everyone else, I remain a free agent.” There is nothing more impressive — intellectually or otherwise — than to change long held beliefs, opinions, and habits. The more you’ve changed, the better you probably are.“Judge not, lest you be judged.” — JesusNot only here would Jesus call us on one of our worst tendencies but immediately also ask: “And why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye?” This line is similar to what the Stoic philosopher Seneca, who historical sources suggest was born the same year as Jesus, would say: “You look at the pimples of others when you yourselves are covered with a mass of sores.” Waste no time judging and worrying about other people. You have plenty of problems to deal with in your own life. Chances are your own flaws are probably worse — and in any case, they are at least in your control. So do something about them.“Time and patience are the strongest warriors.” — Leo TolstoyTolstoy puts the above words in the mouth of Field Marshall Mikhail Kutuzov in War and Peace. In real life, Kutuzov gave Napoleon a painful lesson in the truth of the epigram over a long winter in Russia in 1812. Tolstoy would also say, “Everything comes in time to him who knows how to wait.” When it comes to accomplishing anything significant, you are required to exhibit patience and fortitude, so much patience, as much as you’d think you’d need boldness and courage. In my book Conspiracy, about Peter Thiel’s plot to destroy Gawker, his operative describes a similar idea: With enough time and patience, you can do anything.“No one saves us but ourselves / No one can and no one may.” — BuddhaWill we wait for someone to save us, or will we listen to Marcus Aurelius’s empowering call to “get active in your own rescue — if you care for yourself at all — and do it while you can.”Because at some point, we must put articles like this one aside and take action. No one can blow our nose for us. Another blog post isn’t the answer. The right choices and decisions are. Who knows how much time you have left, or what awaits us tomorrow? So get to it.Like to Read?I’ve created a list of 15 books you’ve never heard of that will alter your worldview and help you excel at your career.Get the secret book list here!