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Because he never cheated on me.Don’t judge. Let me explain.I met this wonderful, kind, loving and extremely good looking guy when I was 19 and he was 20. We met during our undergraduation and there were just sparks. We dated for 3 months before making it official. We had 4 years of wonderful togetherness, bliss and happiness. After our graduation, he got a job at a top software firm in India while I went abroad for my masters.The first 2 years was wonderful. I flew down to India when I could and he came over to visit me once too. But an year into working, we weren’t able to make a lot of time for each other.But neither of us talked about breaking up nor taking a break. We understood the situations were so and decided to live with. But at the same time, there was a distance that we didn’t know how to handle.The biggest problem was he wasn’t keen on coming to US and I was in a situation where it was necessary for me to be here. Both of us had valid reasons and we didn’t know how to work around them.A couple of months later, I was working on a project when I got a call from an Unknown number. It was his friend calling to talk to me. My heart raced wondering something bad had happened to my boyfriend and I excused myself and went to the stairs. I still remember seeing a crumpled paper on the stair I was sitting on and me looking at what was written on it. It had the letters ‘Fact…’ on them. I called him back and asked him if boyfriend was alright. He didn’t say anything for a couple of seconds and later on told me that he was. I was confused. Why was he calling me then. Then he proceeded to tell the story. Boyfriend(lets call him X) met a girl(Y) in a office. She was extrememly nice and very talkative. They quickly became friends. She was also there when he needed help numerous times and vice versa. The friend told me some more details that I would not like to share here as it is personal to her. Infact I remember X mentioning her a couple of times to me as well. At this point my heart was racing and I felt like I knew what was coming. Y fell in love with X and proposed him. Even though X looked like he had feelings he never even spoke to her after the proposal. He shut himself off from anyone who even tried talking about her.The friend just said ‘SO..’ and stopped it there. I knew what he was asking me. I just said I will talk to him later and cut the call. At that moment I felt betrayed. I know boyfriend didn’t cheat on me. But for a moment I felt jealous. I cried sitting on the stairs and didn’t know what to do. I wanted to end it for his sake so that he could move on but I was also selfish and didn’t want a change in my life. Then I called X and asked him about her. He was shocked that I knew about it and then started sobbing quietly. It broke my heart. I knew our relationship was long over. I knew there was nothing I could offer him now. I also knew he was in love with her. I asked him if he kissed her. He said never. At that moment I knew what I had to do. He would never cheat on me. He would tie himself to me his entire life even if we never meet each other again just because of the fact that he promised me.And I couldn’t let him do that. Even though I knew our relationship had run its course , I did love him. SO I set him free. He tried to talk to me. He tried to convince me. He tried to reason a lot with me. He said that he didn’t love her. But I could sense in his words that he was in love with her. I asked him to not contact me for sometime and move on with his life.Its been 4 years since that day. Today he is married to her. He got married last week. It took me a lot of time to get over him. Probably because I was so used to having him in my life.But today I m completely over him. I sent him an email wishing him all the luck in his life. That I’m happy for him and that he was a very lucky man for having found such a beautiful soul.He replied - I ALWAYS was lucky. Thank you for everything.

I was born in Muslim family in Aligarh, India.My 19 year long journey of life till now in India has been amazing.Muslims in Palestine :The lives of these people is affected so badly due to Israeli intervention. Life is hard for a Muslim in Palestine.Muslims in Syria :Death, destruction and suffering all around, because of some radical Muslims trying to impose anarchyMuslims in Afghanistan :I can’t get over these images. We all know about the condition of Muslims there due to the intervention of firstly Americans and now Pakistan.I feel lucky that I belong to an Indian Muslim family.What do we get?Scholarships.Places of worship.Right to practice our religion openly.Freedom of speech ( Unlike many Muslim population dominant countries like Saudi Arabia).Freedom to wear what we want. Indian Muslim women are free to wear whatever they want (again unlike other countries).Culture : I have been ( and I still am) a good friend of a Hindu, A Muslim, A Christian and so on. I celebrate Holi, Eid, Diwali, Christmas and what not.Things are bad too now and then, but still India is one of the best countries for a Muslim to live in.Still wondering what my dream place is?Of course it is the country in which I was born.It is India:)Image source : Google

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