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I can tell you what worked for me.I was a non-english medium student throughout the school. If you know hindi, you would understand- I am one of those who have studied ‘Time period of simple pendulum’ as ‘सरल लोलक का आवर्तकाल’. ;DCollege curriculum wasn't easy to understand, presentations and interviews were feared like true evil.Things have changed now and I don't claim to have achieved any kind of proficiency but improvements are sufficient enough to sustain me in IT industry.Get in habit of reading - Start reading english books. Be it novel, fiction, non-fiction, literature, news paper, magazine ... doesn't matter. Just read. This is really important to improve vocabulary, understanding of sentence formation, understanding of slangs, and finally, after many many books, it helps you to think in english. This habit will not only help you improve english but also serve you dearly in the life.Watch English movies / series - this is good fun and very important to understand accent/dialects. First, try watching with subtitles, eventually without subtitles. This trains your ears.Get a circle of speakers - This is the most important thing. be it college group, friends, colleagues or family .. nothing is going to work out if you are not practicing. Get into some english speaking course if you have to .. don't expect any miracle, just use this to practice speaking.Don't lose confidence - Always remember, if you are not good at english, that's because it's not your first language and you know at least one other language better than english. This is something to be proud of … not many people are multi-lingual, especially lots of native English speakers. Don't let anyone pull you down because of this and keep practicing.Good luck! Hope i am of some help.As a side note, people often confuse communication with language. Language is just one tool for communication.

Have you ever encountered someone and thought "I want him in my life"?I’m not necessarily referring to a romantic connection - although I'm not excluding that.I mean a clear, powerful, life-directing "You. I want more of you".That's what I felt the instant I met him. Every time I got to talk to him, despite not knowing him, despite conversations in fits and starts, the feeling grew.I found him massively exotic - in every way different from me, quirky and surprising - a tangle, avid and intricate and meticulous and sweet.During one of our intent chats​, (he expresses himself in a cocktail of unclear/lucid spurts) he revealed how complex his personal life was.I listened, then made a mental note to always talk to him about the things I felt connected us - creativity, hunger, restlessness, fantasy - but to never talk to him about my day in, day out struggles.The last thing I wanted was become yet another thing that burdened him. What I wanted was to provide, if only for a moment, a respite, breathing space, deliverance.To me, the best friends grant you precisely what you lack.A few months later something truly awful happened in my life. He - on sheer impulse, on instinct - was the first person I thought to call. I felt powerless and desperate and completely alone and knew that in his gentle voice I'd find a measure of solace.I did not call him. I had promised myself I wouldn’t. I was worried he would feel devoid of recourse. There was nothing he could do for me, and feeling like there was nothing he could do was precisely the sensation that I wanted to spare him.It was a couple of months after that decision that we had a strained encounter. We weren't angry or even distant. Just not smooth. Not easy."You know what I would like to see some day, Dushka?" he said. "I want to see you share more of your life with me. You are so reserved - I find out about things about you through other people. I think the next big step in this friendship of ours is for you to think of reaching out to me if you need someone to talk to".Without communication, you have people who badly want the very same thing yet stay away from it, based on the silent assumptions we all make.We try, you see. We try to be good, to take care of the people that we love. It's just that without communication, we can't possibly know what that really is.

Wow. Here’s how my wife and I communicate about this sort of issue: one of us says to the other, “Hey, Valentine’s Day is coming up. Want to do anything special?” The other person then answers.In other words, we communicate about our wishes. We don’t ask the other to read our minds, and we certainly don’t set traps so that we have a justification for negative feelings.If you want a card, or a dinner, or a box of chocolates, ask for it. But for gosh sake, don’t replace direct communication with mind-reading or ESP.