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First off there are no fees for leaves or requests for leave in any branch of the United States military. Second there is no such thing as a fiancée form in the U.S. military. There is however a form for applying for a fiancée visa (K-1 Visa)that is available from the Immigration and Customs Service (Fiancé(e) Visas) which would be processed by the U.S. State Department at a U.S. Consulate or Embassy overseas. However these fiancée visas are for foreigners wishing to enter the United States for the purpose of marriage and are valid for 90 days. They have nothing to do with the military and are strictly the responsibility of Immigration and Customs (Homeland Security) and the State Department. And I should add that there are serious consequences for those attempting visa fraud which can include permanent exclusion from the United States for foreigners and up to 10 years in a federal prison for U.S. residents as visa or marriage fraud are very serious Federal crimes.One more word regarding forms. Questions regarding the usage or supposed fees that a supposed soldier is telling you online are required for such forms can best be answered by consulting the Army Publications Directorate, this site contains a wealth of information regarding forms and their usage and I’d advise anyone being sent false or fake forms or being asked to assist in paying fees for military forms or their processing to visit this page.

For a working person, retirement will be a time that can start to eat you up because suddenly there is nothing to do. For the first six months or so, one may enjoy the freedom from work and pressures of the job. After that it will great boredom. So how to make retirement fruitful and enjoyable?The trick to keep oneself occupied. Start thinking about what you can return back to the society?You may have earned a lot of expertise in your field. So you can take up a consulting job. You don’t have to earn your last salary drawn. Anyone may gobble you up for your vast experience at 50–70% of your last CTC.Think about joining an NGO on a worthy cause. For example, you can teach in nearby village schools who do not get and cannot afford good teachers. They will readily welcome you. You can request only transportation expenses at actual.As a corollary of above, you can even take up home tuitions.Do you have a home garden? Take that up. There is no joy like working with nature.You can join a film club. In Pune, we have the National Film Archives of India. One can become their member. They have their own cinema hall and every Saturday they screen a movie (not during the pandemic times).You can take up research. For instance, Pune has many premiere institutes. Check your city. In my city:One is the Deccan College that has excellent archives on Maratha and Peshwa history.The Servants of India Society formed by Gopal Krishna Gokhale aims to unite and train Indians of different ethnicities and religions in welfare work.The Bhandarkar Oriental Research Institutes takes pride in old cultural languages - Sanskrit, Parkrit, etc. - and has volumes of ancient texts. They are the one who brought about the Critical Edition of Mahabharata which formed the loose basis of B R Chopra’s series of the same name.You can adopt a needy student for his/her education. You are responsible for their fees and costs.You can pursue a hobby that you could not during your working life.(I have personally taken up to advise young people on how to achieve Financial Goal Planning. I intend to do this free of cost. Today this is on Quora. Afterwards, I plan to start a webpage and perhaps a YouTube channel.I also intend to pursue wildlife photography much more. Conditions permitting I am planning to visit Masai Mara next August.)All the above are means of keeping oneself occupied. Some of these will earn you a modest income, some may not. After you retire, you are most likely to become grandparents soon. You can help out your kids if that is possible.Literally, there are thousands of things one can do and follow. The principle is be contented and satisfied. If life has been good to you, there is no problem. If life has been difficult so far, there is no point brooding over the past as that is not going to change.

The first big one occurred when I was a sophomore in college. I’d get upper abdominal pain, usually Saturday nights after my parents visited. I went to student health a couple times; after giving me pain pills, they said to go to the ER the next time it happened. I went to the ER associated with the university I was attending. I have them my history and the doctor, after palpating my abdomen, said I was just homesick. I actually had gall stones and needed surgery.About six years later, I was in Illinois for grad school. I went to student health regularly for a cough that would not go away. As time went on, I was so tired; I used my limited energy on the classes I was teaching, Intro to Psychology, instead of my own studies. I insisted on a chest X-ray to see what was going on; after a year, they finally did so. They said nothing was wrong and that I was “just a California girl who couldn’t handle Midwest winters.” After two years, I wasn’t making progress towards my MA/PhD, so I was stripped of my tuition waivers and my TA position. I went home to California and my regular doctor. He gave me a steroid shot because he thought it was an allergic cough, like so many I’d had before. The steroid was supposed to treat the cough for three months; after the weekend, the cough was back. I had an X-ray which showed a large mass in the center of my chest. My California cough was actually Hodgkin’s Lymphoma. When my oncologist requested the X-ray done at school, they said they had no records. Being cynical, I’ve always thought that they spotted something that they had missed and made it “go away.”The third time was after I was on a disability retirement. I was having left flank pain. My primary doctor said it sounded like kidney stones and sent me to a urologist. He said he found small stones in my right kidney that could cause pain when passing and a staghorn stone in my left kidney, which he said couldn’t be causing the pain. So he said the left pain was referred pain from my right kidney. After a few laser procedures to blast the right kidney stones, he said that too much scar tissue had formed in both kidneys and that I needed surgery to remove my left kidney. I decided to go to a different urologist — who specialized in kidney surgery (the urologist I had been going to was my father’s who specialized in prostate issues) — for a consultation. The new urologist tried removing part of the left kidney, but eventually had to remove the rest; a stone had blocked the left ureter and killed the kidney. This time they medical community didn’t say my pain was “in my head,” but didn’t trust my self-reported pain levels. I have now been left with chronic pain and a damaged right kidney.TL;DR. Doctors who were to lazy to do proper studies assumed that I — an obese young woman — could not be sick, blaming psych issues.