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Hopefully it will no longer be fallaciously pitted against the right to life of another human being. Once artificial wombs exist, it will do for the unwanted unborn what adoption does for the unwanted newborn: allows them to exist independently of the mother.At that point, the question becomes: why is it still so important for certain people to retain the right to kill their own child, when they absolutely have no reason to anymore?(And before this gets too political and accusations of hypocrisy start inevitably flying in, if artificial wombs existed and if it came with the caveat of giving up parental rights ala adoption, I’m 100% for tax-supported government policies of funding this.)

Yes..it's true that most people still accept it's a respectable job. And of course why not? But these officials have to face some challenges like Political Interference, Transfers, No Recognition .But still if IAS officers ditermine, they can do wonders for development of our country.Best IAS officers of India:Raj Yadav, IAS: Adopted 5 Sikkim villages and transformed over 7500 livesShashanka Ala, IAS: Fighting malnutrition in MizoramSandeep Nanduri, IAS: Launched a cafe which is run exclusively by differently-abled personsAwanish Sharan, IAS: Sent Bike Ambulances to Tribal Doorsteps, Reducing Medical Costs by 90 per centJitendra Kumar Soni, IAS: Stopped 1.5 lakh kids from walking barefoot to school by providing free footwearHope these IAS officials will inspire youngster's to build better India!!Image Source and Reference : thebetterindia.com

Yes. My sibling and her husband. They adopted a very handsome boy from an orphanage in the dissolving Soviet Union, up on the Ukraine border. Conditions in the orphanage were deplorable, of course, as there was no money to support the care and feeding of these children.So that meant that this boy, Sergei, was challenged in his infant and formative toddler years. He was adopted by my sibling when he about 8-years old.This child was very intelligent, with a very sharp mind. He was also very charming, disarming all the adults (neighbors, teachers, social circle friends) with aplomb. I know, he did it to me.The first sign of trouble was when his teachers reported he was totally oppositional in school and class. He refused to participate in any class activities, nor to do any of the classwork assigned to him, even during class time. If his adoptive-parents could coax him to do the work at home, he proved to be perfectly capable of learning and doing the course work. When we counseled him, including me, he would solemnly promise to straighten up and be compliant. But as soon as he turned away from us, it would be as if we had never said a word of counsel to him.A couple of other serious clues began to be apparent. Sergei was drawing shockingly explicit sexual drawings in class, instead of doing his school work. Memories from his life in the orphanage? Likely.Another one was the torturing and harming of the small pets in the household and of neighbors's pets. Other family members reported missing items from their homes after Sergei had visited them. He became increasingly fascinated with the kitchen knives. Sergei began to prowl the house in the middle of the night, often coming to just stand in his parents' bedroom.My sibling and her husband became alarmed by Sergei's behavior and installed heavy bolt locks on their bedroom door, so they could sleep safely at night. Sergei became worse. He had a dead look in his eyes, like no soul behind them.He would charm the neighbors with his handsome, wide-eyed-innocent persona. They all loved him, some odd anomalies with him, notwithstanding. However, the neighborhood children began to avoid Sergei. I remember visiting on Halloween, and my husband (Sergei's uncle) realized Sergei had no one to go Trick 'r Treating with, while the neighborhood kids were roving around in gleeful packs. My husband took him around that night. We were so sure we were bonding with our nephew, even if no one else could. Sergei could do that to you, present himself as so charming and earnest. The neighborhood kids knew better.Sergei began to tell the neighbors about how my sibling and her husband were violently abusive to him, and were psychologically cruel to him. The neighbors, up and down the street, were outraged and appalled. They called Child Protective Services on my sister and spouse. They were cleared of any wrongdoing, but the neighbors began to shun them (they have since had to leave the neighborhood).Finally, the situation became so untenable for my family, my sibling and her husband sought to revoke their adoption of Sergei. They hoped the rescission of their adoption would mean Sergei would be sent back to Russia, and they would be safe from retaliation by him. Alas, that was not allowed.Sergei became a ward of The State until he aged out at 18. The State placed him in a facility for disturbed children. It was tightly structured (like juvenile boot-camp), and reports were that Sergei was doing well there. He would call his adoptive Mom on occasion and report how happy he was in that place. We prayed that was true.Last I heard, he roams the city streets now as a male prostitute and drug dealer. He calls my sister now and then. She accepts the calls. That's more than I would do. How long before Sergei finally gets so angry and resentful of what has happened to him and his adoption, that he comes to take revenge on his former family? {{{shudder}}}I can tell you from looking directly into Sergei's eyes, he has the hallmarks of psychopathy. I've often referred to him, when relating the foregoing story, that Sergei may be the next Jeffrey Dahmer. No kidding.EDIT: From all the comments I've received, I realize I left out crucial information. Sergei did, in fact, receive all the best psychiatric, psychological and medical treatments (and school tutoring) money can buy. (My sibling and her husband are very comfortably situated, and could afford any and all treatment required for Sergei.)I remember the day they told me they had consulted with the most esteemed child-psychiatrist in their US region. That doc told them that Sergei was the worst case of Dissociative Disorder he had ever personally seen. He basically told them, "Give up hope. Nothing can be done with this child." They were so devastated at this news.My apology for the omission of this cogent information about all the treatment modalities my sister tried with Sergei. They truly loved this child.Thanks for all who commented, critically or supportive.