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I suppose it depends on the community. Where I live, the community recreation and park centers are very popular. They offer dozens of youth sport and cultural activities at a very affordable price.

Your son may be predisposed genetically and also have the influence of parents who you claim both have characteristics of cluster B mental disorders. Of course he is at risk but your concern as a mother and how you approach child rearing can completely bring your child through critical stages of development that direct his behavior into the range of normal.Since you identify yourself as a person with borderline personality disorder, I assume you have been treated or are under treatment and if not, it would be to your benefit and your son’s that you do so. Your steadying influence will balance the effect of your husband’s behavior on the child.Socialization outside the home has a major influence on all children and your son especially, will benefit from the influence of such institutions as church activities for youth, community recreation, sports activities and scouting.It goes without saying that he will be nurtured with your love and that of his relatives whose good example will help to set the course of his life. Your concern is noteworthy and I have no doubt you will do your best to see your son grow into a healthy, happy contributing member to society.

Narcissistic revenge takes many forms. Narcissistic revenge can include, but is not limited to:Creating and weaving tales of lies, deceit, and spreading smear campaigns galore about you, your integrity, the reasons you left or why he/she discarded you.Loss of so-called friends. Reputation with folks under his/her influence in shambles.Financial ruin. In my case, this included the narcissistic abuser intentionally stalling the sale of a house for almost two years. The ex was living in this house while I accrued massive debt including half the mortgage, taxes, and insurance while he lived in the house with a girlfriend, and I paid rent at another location.Huge legal fees. In order to maintain limited contact for my physical safety, I had to use the service of a lawyer for every communication. This was critical. I have no regrets.Bankruptcy. See above.The list goes on.In the end, your physical and emotional safety is paramount. Knowing yourself and having peace and space to breathe, being able to look in the mirror at a person you are proud of, and knowing that what you did was worth all of it. Knowing you did it. You saved yourself.Money can be paid back. Bankruptcy timelines end. New friends can and will be made. Circles of connected community recreated with folks who are genuine, loving, and honest can and will be established.How do you avoid the rage? I would say the key word is to minimize.Get a good lawyer.Enlist the supports of mentors, experts, and a close group of trusted friends and/or family.Maintaining no contact.Limit exposure to folks who create or thrive on chaos and drama. They won’t serve you moving forward.Relearn to listen to your intuition. Relearn to listen to your one, true, inner voice.Don’t trust a word that the narcissist says. Consider that all of it is a lie. Make decisions based on knowing that. In the end, the one thing you know that is true is that it is all a lie. All of it. Don’t let your guard down. Try to see the whole field of play. You will need support with this.Know that there will be losses. Loss of “friends”. Financial losses. Loss of an imagined future. Let go of black and white expectations. Have one friend/mentor/expert you trust and can seek out for feedback if you find yourself clutching or grasping.Someone once said to me, “Don’t spend $2,000 fighting over a $200.00 couch.” Think of that as the analogy. Your goal is freedom. Your goal is peace. Remember that when you are making decisions.Consider the metaphor of the tiger. When you know you are dealing with a tiger and that tiger has shown you time and time again its stripes, you need to approach with intense caution.You are the only one who knows the details of your specific situation. Trust what you know. Look at the patterns. Know that the narcissistic abuser will repeat these same patterns time and time again.All the best to you.In peace.LisaTrusting Ourselves After A Toxic Relationship | Lisa Haskinsfacebook: yourlifeyourboundariesLog In or Sign Up to View