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My clients with Narcissistic Personality Disorder often twist the truth in order to rationalize both their failures and their mistreatment of other people. These lies often fall rather neatly into the following groups:Blame ShiftingNarcissists (people who qualify for a diagnosis of NPD) believe that if they admit being at fault, they will feel worthless and other people will lose respect for them. So, when they make a mistake, they tell themselves and other people things like:It is all their fault.They provoked me to do it.If they had not done (fill in the blank), I would not of had to do (fill in the blank).It didn’t happen.Everyone does it. Why pick on me?I was only thinking of you.DevaluingPeople with NPD lack emotional empathy and construct status hierarchies. They rationalize devaluing other people in some of the following ways:If you weren’t such an idiot, I would’t have had to (fill in the blank).I was only being honest.They disrespected me.It was a joke.You are too sensitive.I only said what everyone was thinking.I have a right to expect better service.If she doesn’t want people to call her fat, she should lose weight.Why do you always criticize everything I say?Their AbilitiesI am the smartest person in this room.I could do your job better than you, even without any training.I don’t need a degree in (fill in the blank) to answer that very technical Quora question.I know better.They should put me in charge.Trust me, I am always right about things like this.The only reason I am not rich and famous is that I was cheated out of my chance.If I were President, I would fix everything in the first 100 days.Everyone envies me because (fill in the blank).Punchline: Narcissists tend to lie to themselves and other people about things that show them as less than perfect, mistaken, or at fault.A2AElinor Greenberg, PhD, CGPIn private practice in NYC and the author of the book: Borderline, Narcissistic, and Schizoid Adaptations.

So, when I was much younger and misspending my youth, I had a friend who went by the nickname Scooby. He had 2 teardrop tattoos under his eye, one filled in one just an outline. One day, I asked him about them, because curious and hadn’t seen them before.His explanation of the tattoos was:The outline represented someone he had lost because someone killed them and he had promised to “pay it back”, and the filled in one meant he had “gotten his” for one of his people that was killed. He got it filled in from outline to solid after he had “gotten his”. To this day, when I see teardrop tattoos by eyes, that is the association that immediately jumps into my head. Violence, gang affiliation, and possibly an ex-con.Scooby was an ex-gangbanger who had done hard time, they were prison tatts.That is probably not the series of associations you want people to make when they see that on your face. That:You lost someone close to you through gang violenceThat you have sworn revenge for the loss of a loved oneThat you “got yours” on a person who killed your loved one.If you are okay with that immediate association with most people, including gang members, go for it. That is also taking into consideration you can even find a quality tattoo artist willing to do such a tattoo. Most good tattoo artists refrain from doing gang symbol tattoos, which is what this is. Even more tattoo artists refrain from doing facial tattoos.Otherwise, consider a different tattoo to represent a lost loved one in a different place.

Imagine on the day of Diwali a person who is broke as hell, that he don’t have even Rs.10 to pay for the bus fare, and suddenly a bundle of Rs. 40,000/- appears on his feet.What may he do?Forget bus, the person is now in the position that he can hire a taxi, buy new clothes, sweets, crackers and what not.But NOThe money can't tempt a daily wage labourer to let go of his honesty.Meet Dhanaji Jagdale (54) from Satara, Maharashtra who makes ends meet by doing odd jobs, is earning praise from all quarters after he returned Rs. 40,000 cash lying at a bus stop on Diwali to its rightful owner who had collected the money for his wife’s surgery.[1][1][1][1]Dhanaji Jagdale with Tejaswi Satpute(IPS), Supdt. of Police, Satara.And, that’s not it. When he returned the money, the rightful owner wanted to reward him with Rs.1000. But, Mr. Jagdale only accepted Rs. 7 for bus fare to get to his native village as he only had Rs. 3 in his pocket at the time.Mr. Jagdale was honored by local politicians and several other organisations. He was offered cash rewards of Rs. One lakh by the local MLA and Rs. Five lakhs by a NRI who read about his story on facebook but he continued to refuse to accept any cash awards."I think by taking someone's money, one would not get satisfaction. The only message I want to spread is that people should live honestly," he said.This man lives true to a quote by Shakespeare “No legacy is so rich as honesty.”Edit : Some people have questions over Dhanaji’s honesty, some are calling him fool for not accepting the reward. While digging further about this story, I found that he is alone in this world as his wife and only son died few years back. [2][2][2][2]In such context, desires for materialistic world also dies. Before pointing finger one should fill in the boots of this man and ask themselves “What’s more precious, money or family?”Footnotes[1] http://On Diwali, Man With Rs 3 In Pocket Returns Rs 40,000 Found At Bus Stop (https://www.ndtv.com/cities/on-diwali-man-with-rs-3-in-pocket-returns-rs-40-000-found-at-bus-stop-2126712) [1] http://On Diwali, Man With Rs 3 In Pocket Returns Rs 40,000 Found At Bus Stop (https://www.ndtv.com/cities/on-diwali-man-with-rs-3-in-pocket-returns-rs-40-000-found-at-bus-stop-2126712) [1] http://On Diwali, Man With Rs 3 In Pocket Returns Rs 40,000 Found At Bus Stop (https://www.ndtv.com/cities/on-diwali-man-with-rs-3-in-pocket-returns-rs-40-000-found-at-bus-stop-2126712) [1] http://On Diwali, Man With Rs 3 In Pocket Returns Rs 40,000 Found At Bus Stop (https://www.ndtv.com/cities/on-diwali-man-with-rs-3-in-pocket-returns-rs-40-000-found-at-bus-stop-2126712) [2] ‘हजाराचे बक्षीस नको तिकीटाचे सात रुपये द्या’; ४० हजार परत करणाऱ्या धनाजीची थक्क करणारी कथा[2] ‘हजाराचे बक्षीस नको तिकीटाचे सात रुपये द्या’; ४० हजार परत करणाऱ्या धनाजीची थक्क करणारी कथा[2] ‘हजाराचे बक्षीस नको तिकीटाचे सात रुपये द्या’; ४० हजार परत करणाऱ्या धनाजीची थक्क करणारी कथा[2] ‘हजाराचे बक्षीस नको तिकीटाचे सात रुपये द्या’; ४० हजार परत करणाऱ्या धनाजीची थक्क करणारी कथा