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This answer may contain sensitive images. Click on an image to unblur it.Few of the well-wisher on Quora has advised me on a few aspects and to avoid harassment or false implication; I have decided to quote a source to the information I have posted in my answer here. If you feel any information requires a further quote, let me know, and If I have no quote available and my premises of information is vague without question, i will remove such information.I married at the age of 28. I was Australia return. I returned to India as I couldn't live without the Indian social environment.I had a love marriage, had a great Business, and a substantial income.My wife deserted me at the age of 34 and without my consent took two kids, despite custody of two kids given to me. *(Clause No 3 and 6 Deed Of Divorce Mutual executed)I found her in a kind of relationship with someone that I was never aware of, so, I raised questions, and I couldn't resist her playing hide and seek with me on that. During my matrimonial life, I lent above half a million to her (Bank loans taken, Father sold his property-retirement fund to give money to generate interest) relatives and friends as she asked me for business purposes, and all of a sudden I had no way to recover money as smoothly as I could have in her presence, as she always handled-managed all transactions. I trusted her. Now, I couldn't find the scope of a phone conversation with her. *(Regarding Relationship, Deed Of divorce Mutually Executed and FIR No 48/2017, Surat Umra Police Station) + For Financial issues, monies lent to her friends and relatives and information are covered under phone records, WhatsApp, emails, bank statements. She has also given amount from her saving to the best of my knowledge)When I learned about all the shocking bitter things, I wanted her to accept it and move on with a friendly compromise way, as I have two kids.But, she wanted Divorce, and she kept saying it all the time on WhatsApp and Phone. I gave her what she wanted on mutually decided terms, but after the execution of a deed of Divorce *(28th June 2017), she retracted and refused other settlement and support in recovery. *(Phone conversation)She took two kids without my consent on 07/07/2017, whom I loved and I have been taking care of since their birth. In a formal agreement, she officially submitted kids custody to me under the oath and witness. *(Clause 3 and 6 for Child Custody in the Deed of divorce)Then she filed a false Complaint about Kidnapping and others. *(Phone Recording, MP High Court Order and Order of Session court, Indore) The Complaint was dismissed as she couldn't prove it. I have submitted all evidence to the police during my statement period. I have posted a few pieces of evidence and information to the concerned police department so far. *(24+ Letters with Evidence supplied to concerned police department through DTDC Post)Then one day she called and gave my kids under her new verbal terms, to which I agreed. As soon as I took kids, she filed a kidnapping complaint against me to force me to agree to more terms. She beat the shit out of me. How did she bring the kids in the first place from my home, after giving custody to me was never questioned by the media? That was never investigated by police in the beginning, however, following the high court ruling, they started investigating a case on a merit and fact basis*(MP High Court Order is, attached in this post)She alleged some ladies and one guy for abetting kidnapping with me, who were systematically organized to fabricate me in a false case. However, the High Court of MP made it clear that there was no offense of kidnapping made by me. Gujarat High Court also passed a protection order to protect my child and me against false cases and harm.Everything I created, earned, and made in life was at stake.I couldn't live without kids, my business, life, reputation, and atrocious questions of media and agony caused by police during the Investigation, it was terrible and affected me deep inside.But you know what?My children with me were a constant reason for me to keep walking with my head up, no matter what as long as I stood for truth and as I stood for truth, obstacles were obvious.Police dismissed all kidnapping charges/Refused to take a complaint and even denied that they could not take kids from me based on a settled agreement signed by the wife that says, Children's Custody is given to the father, and Gujarat High Court has given protection order to my daughters and me. *(Clause 3 and 6 of Deed of Divorce)Wife pursued District court Indore; her case was dismissed there too. *(Information given at the end of the answer)Wife filed an appeal before the high court, her case dismissed, and it is proved that all allegations were false and frivolous. *(Information given at the end of an answer)Gujarat high court directs police to provide free protection to my two daughters and me from their mother. *(Information presented at the end of response)As she lost all cases, she changed her stories and statement previously submitted to the police and put new allegations on me, such as; I have used a gun to have sexual intercourse with her. Changing a story to implicate someone is perjury, a crime. I wish my wife would know that; First, we Lie, then we lie to cover the previous lie then we feel like lie protected us, but in the end, Truth alone triumphs and Karma always chases us. *(Based on her statement in courts and Stories published in Newspaper with her and Police officer photos, a reasonable assumption made and the media said her application was a source for them)These all happened between 07/07/2017 to 07/10/2017. And it's on.Wife lost all cases however I filed a Complaint with Surat police on an evidence basis, and police have initiated action and, she made out new stories, and put new criminal charges on me that I used a gun to torture her and police took a bribe to help me. All those charges deemed to be dismissed follow by High court order. (Indore) it is just I don't and won't surrender to her atrocious terms, and now I don't have to.As under the Indian law, once a high court has ruled out, she can challenge it to the supreme court however she went back to police through media and stressed them to file a Kidnapping Complaint which is already dismissed by a high court.When I contacted the media, they gave an apology and changed the news. Few presses don't have contact information at all. They got "masala" so they posted at the cost of my right to live with dignity.I won all cases so far. (Except if she files new complaints, I will add it in Edits) (Over matrimonial issues, Lawyer and your enemies always win, but as a couple, family and kids, it is still like losing everything. Genuine atrocious matrimonial cases are exceptional) However, I can't stop thinking about my wife whom I loved. I always look for an option to save my family.Indian judiciary system never harassed me, and they delivered justice on a merit basis. But the judiciary is extremely technical, and sometimes it relies too much on its own decisions over evidence and that is where Injustice happens. Sometime.My wife officially given Custody of my children through a deed of divorce and lost (She voluntarily, consciously withdrawn her rights) all her mother rights since then, despite that she took my kids without my consent, for her hidden agenda (I can not disclose it since Law does not allow me and matter are under investigation) and I could have filed a complaint on that. However, I just thought to be a good human at that time. It had then came to my mind, how much more children are vulnerable to matrimonial and custody issues, and further, they are affected by media and judicial process. My complaint issues are much more severe than what i have mentioned here. However, I am not allowed to post any evidence and footage, and those are under investigation.Recently, on 11/10/2017 Surat Police Registered FIR against wife under section 504, 506 to threaten children, parents, and me. And Police also registered FIR against her paramour u/s 497 for extramarital affairs/Adultery. Then I came to know, If married women commit adultery, they can not be punished under the current law. However, only the person who engaged in an extramarital relationship is punished. *(FIR No 336/2017 for u/s 504, 506 and FIR No 48/2017 for u/s 497)I remember once a police officer told me; If the press/media pressurize them, they will file a 498a complaint against me, despite, I am innocent. How strange? Isn't it? I pursued a legal process, and I am fortunate enough, my rights were recognized and no false complaint filed against me. I thank the Gujarat High court for their Direction on protection against false accusation and harm to life to my children and me against my wife.How this incident has pushed me towards a new solution:I realized the child has a different right than adults.This episode gave me an understanding of children's vulnerability, and I started a program under NGO: Dear Cherry Kiwi | JivanamAsteya Cherry and Kiwi are my two daughters. It focuses on Child Rights, Protection, and their best interest including protecting children from domestic violence, child trafficking, sexual abuse.I started learning that families are breakings through misunderstandings, ego, and anger and the pieces of advice of a so-called well-wisher. I wanted to focus on the family, so I started another program here: Live More Family | JivanamAsteyaIn the interest of justice for the most vulnerable, with the support of a volunteer advocate, I boosted PROJECT KARNAV Project Karnav I File Online Complaint with NGO in India - monitoring and implementation of democracy, human rights, and governance. You can file civil, criminal, consumer, cybercrime complaint online. Besides you can file online rti, take action against false cases, government, police, politicians & more in India.To help a husband and their families i have set up one NGO program Live More Family | JivanamAsteya to bring them out of false matrimonial cases and to give the best fight and teach lessons to wrongdoers in collaboration with best local, High Court and Supreme Court Lawyer affiliation including investigators, retired police officers consultation and much more confidential strategies. The cost hence made affordably, and this also includes support for NRIs. So far husbands have been defensive against cases filed by the wife, but rather, we have developed a program to do the opposite in the best interest, to save time and cost. You can also register your case here: Live More Family | JivanamAsteyaKarnav With You: https://www.facebook.com/KarnavWithYou to build happiness, prosperity, and success in the life of individual, couple, group, and Entrepreneurs.I donated all my business/incomes to NGO I am part of, and now diverted full-time focus for a more significant cause. When you see more pain and worse stories, you feel safe, and you've got to do whatever it takes to change their stories.Parent NGO Link: JivanamAsteya - Government Registered NGO in Surat, India.I had two options.To accept and live with the consequences created by wife and cry all the time and beg people for compassion.To come out of whatever it may be for the welfare of my children and to help others come out of a similar situation and keep my mental health adequate and work for the more significant cause.When I help children, families, and people, it gives me immense mental happiness, and that boost my growth.Once I had a successful life, it changed all. But you know what? I say life is always a bitch, but I am not. And that is why I still feel successful because every circumstance that came in my life so far had hidden opportunity and cause for me to work on.Take AwayDon't get disappointed because people love hurting you. You should have your reasons to get frustrated.Anything that you read in print media and news has no legal values in the court of law. Live a transparent life, so you have nothing to hide from anyone, so when something broke out, it doesn't affect you, and no one can ever blackmail you.Your loved one may need one time statement, but no one needs an explanation.Find your cause, find what your life wanted to teach you, and do it. Don't go against that. Your answer to success lies in your situation. Find a mentor who can help you.Suicide is no solution. The solution lies in changing your attitude and thought process about your life. Why blame life, when you have enough control to change it.You are the boss of your success, life, ideas, and thought process. Don't be a slave to it. Once a person called a terrorist by the media is now Prime Minister of India. (Shree Narendra Modi)Wrong time will fade away. When you want to cry, do it. Take a break like a baby so you can cry and repent enough and start again as a hero to move forwards. When you have nothing to lose, what worst can happen?Don't let others decide what you are and what's your success looks like. You don't have to watch 3 Idiots to get inspired. Stories of people can open your mind and windows of opportunities or outlook towards life and situation; however, you get inspiration and motivation from within.Never lie. Hire the best mentor to prepare a defence strategy or to resolve your issues. Mentor generally never charge or take away minor fees. I received help from 8 lawyers including the lawyer of the High Court and Supreme court, who did not cost anything to me (o paid expenses in some matter), but they’d put faith in my case, evidence, and story and just helped me get out of the mud. Those lawyers are my hero, Lord Krishna kind and they want to do something to reform India, and they found their purpose in my struggle.No matter what, you should never hate your decisions and, revenge, anger, and ego lead you nowhere. Don't change your goal and focus because somebody else's wants you to do so.Don’t ever assume, what has happened to me, won’t happen to you. Everybody will face some challenges in their life when they make decisions. Only stories, characters, and situations will be different.There is no pain, no happiness, no north, no south or east or west. There are only two things. Inner and Outer. You can't control external things, but you can control internal things.Despite severe pain, I can see the light coming into my life. My Children are my energy and everything I need to live my life. I can't forget my wife but what I can do is that she will be in my good memories, and Justice will be served on a merit basis {(if she files a new complaint ;)}, but I don't think any more about it as that emotional bombs blast within my body when I think about t her. I have to work on a solution, based on the facts of my present life.All things and episodes have now put me back on steady life, fruitful and progressive path. I am working hard to make myself, mentally fit too. You need your body and mind fit for any hardship.A few months ago, I answered on Quora; I feel so proud to have a wife like her. And I am not going to change that answer because what she did to me can't change my original feeling to her.After all of this, I am unable to hate her as I can't erase the memories and affection I have developed for her, however, the more you respond emotionally to a person who wants you to go hell for personal gain, you need a mentor who can control your emotions. I want to cry a hell out of me; I am weak when I become emotional. *(Based on the fact she filed a kidnapping complaint before a high court of MP and it was disposed of)I believe children need both parents. I might be helpless but not hopeless.Putting the child’s interests above all, I am now awaiting what they would police do next and what happens next? (EDIT: Gujarat high court has passed another order directing Police to provide protection to minor children and to ensure no harm occurs to them. My children and I receive full support from Indore and Surat Police, in the best interest of justice. Gujarat HC also passed FIR direction against Police Inspector, and further proceedings are now undertaken in the matter.)If you are In pain, have a Complaint, or have any trouble, get in touch with me at [email protected] since the police has intervened and initiated legal Investigation, I am getting money recovered bit by bit. I am not sure if anything changes in the future.One of her friends is genuine and stood up for what is right, and he is against Divorce, and he never defaulted so far. I admire him for his honesty.I don't hate my wife, and I don't know why, but just the emotional bond, I made with her, just saying to me again and again, even if she wants to see me in hell, I wish to see her in my life.In response to newspaper stories published by Dainik Bhaskar, they have also posted a story against me, then they revised the story, and All I can say is that, including Dainikbhaskar, with other media organ, I am not happy with the story without verification, photos of wife, mine or children to be posted without consent. At Least i was able to convince Dainik Bhaskar Group, Surat to blur pictures of wife and children. They didn’t spare me though.मेरे किसी से शारीरिक संबंध हैं, पति को घर में बंद कर पत्नी फरारपत्नी बोली पुलिस से मिलकर पति ने किया बेटियों का किडनैप, पति ने बताई चौंकाने वाला बातAfter I shared FIR registered in Surat and Gujarat and MP to Dainikbhaskar regarding Gun and Sexual allegation, coverage, They have revised their article again. However, I am still not contented with their photo things and using a few names that unverified.दो धाराओं में दर्ज हुआ लड़की पर केस,पति पर लगाए थे ये आरोप (if they had verified news earlier, they could have posted one neutral story. What they posted, was taken by other leading media too.)And press news is never reliable. That the same newspaper has published two different stories And one is right, and another should be wrong. I blame it on media who want more circulations, and they care less about the individual’s rights.I have a phone recording with the leading media organization who tried to say in the first place; they were under the impression that women are always right, so they published a story without verification. It is just, my lawyer who does not want me to a public that recording for apparent reasons.The fake stories posted by Dainikbhaskar is here: ‘My Husband Used A Gun To Have Sex With Me’; Indore Woman Reveals About The IT Expert She Married In 2012Why this is a fake story because MP high court has ruled it out that said allegations are bogus. (means daughter are not in illegal detention of father hence no kidnapping charges are attracted) I am attaching that order here, which was not disclosed to the media and police.However, I am ready to talk with any media person on an evidence basis. The first page is the wife's submission to the high court followed by a court order. When I got a certified copy, I got all these three pages. She never used GUN word anywhere to the high court, a lower court in the first place, and all of a sudden her storyline changed.You will also see more orders as you scroll down.In response to manipulated CCTV of 15/07/2017, here is the footage of 07/07/2017 where my parents and I was locked in a room and my wife without consent, all of a sudden took the kids. And this happened in the first place: Shweta Shah Indore CCTV Video Footage - YouTube By this time, I already received legal Custody of kids through a mutually signed deed of divorce that we signed, and that means taking them without my consent can be kidnapping. However, it was none of my interest to file any Complaint at that time. The media was never interested in verifying my facts, and they are a business organization, and they need a story that sells, so police, sex, fantasies since those are most selling digital news. However, the media has brought the facts now. However, I believe media should never post a story merely at face value, either it is from the complainant or accused, however, they should verify it. The press has a right to freedom, but that comes with restriction, so others do enjoy their rights.Gujarat High Court has passed an order for police protection to me and my kids against the wife for false Complaints and physical threats. In the MP high court copy, it is also referred to by court order.I have much more to say but all that is under investigation and Quora is a platform to share knowledge, etc., and through my stories, I have shared stories backing with relevant evidence.Thanks to Quora to repost my answer after verification, based on the merit of the solution.Sign the Petition to help me protect and restore the rights of my two daughters. Click Here via Change. org (The petition is won, and police registered a case.)A person calls himself Binoy Shah who has been referred first by my wife’s friend on WhatsApp, has raised questions to me in the comments section, who says he didn't know his wife but based on the depth of his problems, I have informed he is wife’s friend. However, then I read about him in the news here: दो धाराओं में दर्ज हुआ लड़की पर केस,पति पर लगाए थे ये आरोप , where he has been called his brother. To my surprise, during my marital life, I never met him not his wife introduced to him. That when i asked a newspaper person, he said he introduced himself as an elder brother and made a statement of a deed signed in the name of business agreement. It’s all confusing. Brother, Elder Brother, Cousin, and Far Far Away Cousins, that all are a different thing. However, I have expressed my views and a few severe concern to him over Quora.Regarding money Related an FIR is registered, I found news published on it here by Times of India Man alleges cheating by wife of Rs 61 lakh in Surat - Times of India, however, I have some dissatisfactions, how media report stories, but I can't control them, as they depend on their source.References/Quotes: (I am not able to post few documents, you can explore it on the Indore or Gujarat Court website or obtain FIR through RTI) (I have no intention to hurt anyone and One of my American friends said, Positive Energy will help me survive from everything wrong)Deed of Divorce Executed on 28/06/2017 (Including Custody Settlement)Complaint u/s 294, 323, 506, 366 and Search Warrant Dismissed by Session Court Indore, Registration Number: 3595/2017Private Complaint against me (Should be dismissed followed by High Court MP Order) u/s 361, 294, 323, 506, 363, Registration Number 3595/2017 (It seems the duplicate case)Free Police Protection Order from Gujarat High Court to Children and Me, SCA 3595/2017Claim Disposed of by High court of MP, MCRC/8048/2017FIR against Wife u/s 504, 506, Fir No. 336/2017Adultery FIR against wife’s Paramour u/s 497, FIR No. 48/2017My wife has filed a DV case against my father and me under section 12 of the Domestic violence Act. (Supreme Coury has Stayed this case)Update: Indore Police in its recent report of 21 pages revealed how 61 Lakh rupees in a conspiracy manner taken from me by 13 people and so force me to withdraw the complaint and forget money, numerous 27+ false police complaint, and 10+ court complaint being filed against me in MP and Gujarat, however, police on merit disposed of. (5/3/2018)Indore district court disposed of the charge of kidnapping against me and other false sections.Gujarat High Court considering an increased threat to my daughter's passed second-time protection order in the interest of my daughters.In the Domestic Violence case, the court in Indore didn't grant custody of my daughters and visitation to my wife. I was not aware that she filed such a lawsuit and the court didn't allow her prayers. I however believe, my child deserves the love of a mother like any other child. The feeling I have been going through is mix and weird, as i only see and feel the views of my children.Wife filed appeal u/s 29 of DV for child custody and visitation rights, but the court denied and her petition disposed of as rejected.More than 60+ complaint filed in Indore, Surat, Patan, and Vadodara against my family friends and me to harass to extort money, forcing me to surrender their demands, however, Following Two Gujarat High Court protection order and no merit in complaint police disposed of her Complaint, moreover, Indore police submitted in their report that she and her friend's intentions were criminal and to harass me, a false complaint is being filed. Few complaints are closed by police without pursuing by law enforcement due to repeat Complaint, and few Complaint is non-traceable, as stated by Police.Since police, court, and other options failed, they started an attack on me; even one was made in the presence of my daughter Cherry. Despite the High Court order, the police failed to protect us. However, police registered an immediate FIR against the culprits.As apparently false complaint u/s 125 and DV filed against me and family member in other states. The honorable Supreme Court of India passed a stay order on all her court cases in Indore. (Edit/Update: matter are now being fought) That has been great relief and Justice to my minor daughters and parents, as I can now focus on them better than going here and there — the decision made by the three-judge bench in Supreme Court. It was a threat to my daughters and me to go Indore from Surat, which the supreme court of India has recognized.Surat police have revealed in RTI that she has filed 12+ Complaint against me, my family members, and even HDFC bank and their manager, and the complaint found frivolous. They already released information that she files a complaint, and a person named Binoy Shah does all the rest of things and they want by one or another chance FIR to be registered against me, however, police have registered an FIR considering no offenses ever committed by me. I have also presented 25+ false cases filed and disposed against me from many locations from India to Honorable MP High Court, and the court has pleased to issue a notice to 6+ high-rank police officers and department including wife, and the matter is pending adjudication. This is the big relief from MP High Court, followed by the Supreme Court of India, who stayed frevilous maintenance and domestic violence Complaint against me and family members.After all of these things she has caused to me, my children, and my family, now she has filed RCR (2019, Family Court, Surat) petition in family court and prayed that she wishes to return with me.I have numerous judgments involved in my case, however, if anyone looking for a specific petition or judgment or order in any of the above matter, please reach out to me, I would be happy to share necessary documentation. Due to space limits, I refrain from adding all documents. (Its 3000+ pages and electronic evidence)Gujarat High Court Passed Order to Register FIR against Police officer and others if the cognizable offense is found against me, and the same matter is taken further through court, along with another complaint against CID for vindictive investigation and harassment against me. Copy of the orders is below.Honorable Gujarat High Court please provide further police protection to my minor daughters, after some police began harassment, and political influence came in place. The order is below:The second police protection above came after the violation apprehension expressed on earlier police protection order given by the honorable Gujarat high court. Despite the police protection order given by the court, the same was allegedly violated by the respective police authority, for which the matter is escalated. Refer first police protection order below;Precisely police were supposed to protect me and my daughters, and the same orders were given by the honorable Gujarat high court. however, due to increasing power and influence, I was being harassed by the police itself. hence, the honorable Gujarat high court passed second police protection orders, and directions to the commission of police to ensure no untoward incident happened with my daughters. Both the orders are shared above for reference. I am more than grateful to lawyers who have been great protectors of my daughters in these events.The primary reason that I have provided more details and insights into my case is to advocate the rights of fathers, Right and Best Interest of children and to support those families and victims who are being blackmailed, defamed using negative digital marketing, media contacts, and whose lives are made like hell by culprits. The matrimonial disputes can always be managed through counseling, but when anger, revenge, and getting things done through abuse types of act prevails, the issue becomes serious. I can only feel political and famine pressure on the judiciary, despite that, they are working best in the interest of equal justice.It all started in 2016–17, now we are in 2019, I thought to share a few photos with cherry and kiwi.With GrandfatherWith GrandmotherWith Best Friend, Motherly Carer and LoverGod Bless all the children.I now run NGO, to help those who need me most, and to put sincere efforts to change or better their life, rather than let someone destroying it. I decided to Participate in the RECOGNITION, PROTECTION, PROMOTION, ADVOCACY, ENFORCEMENT and REGULATION of Rights of citizen regardless of sex, race, religion, gender. There is nothing peaceful than helping another being.Live More Family | JivanamAsteya (thanks to a lawyer for helping on an honorarium basis, and donors) India’s only unbiased, and gender equality NGO monitor and act to prevent domestic violence and injustice to women, and prevent false, fakes cases against men, women, and family members. Moreover, it addresses child custody, maintenance, Counseling and, critical matrimonial issues.Dear Cherry Kiwi | JivanamAsteya: Putting Child Rights, Welfare & Best Interests on the top priorities, Protection children from domestic violence, abuse, and parental Alienation. Helping Juveniles, conflict with the law, and addressing issues such as child labour, child trafficking, child prostitution & pornography, and promoting child awareness and education.Project Karnav I File Online Complaint with NGO in India to help consumer citizen to redress their serious grievances, including filings of FIR, Cybercrime complaint, and complaint against government, police, and much more.My life and work are now dedicated to my cause. To learn more about the various projects of NGO I run visit JivanamAsteya - Government Registered NGO in Surat, India.

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Days later, the company files for bankruptcy protection.March 17, 2011 - During an interview on ABC's "Good Morning America," Trump questions whether President Barack Obama was born in the United States.June 16, 2015 - Announces that he is running for president during a speech at Trump Tower. He pledges to implement policies that will boost the economy and says he will get tough on immigration. "When Mexico sends its people, they're not sending their best...They're sending people who have lots of problems," Trump says. "They're bringing drugs, they're bringing crime, they're rapists, and some, I assume, are good people."June 28, 2015 - Says he's giving up the TV show "The Apprentice" to run for president.June 29, 2015 - NBCUniversal says it is cutting its business ties to Trump and won't air the Miss USA and Miss Universe pageants because of "derogatory statements by Donald Trump regarding immigrants."July 8, 2015 - In an interview with CNN's Anderson Cooper, Trump says he "can't guarantee" all of his employees have legal status in the United States. This is in response to questions about a Washington Post report about undocumented immigrants working at the Old Post Office construction site in Washington, which Trump is converting into a hotel.July 22, 2015 - Trump's financial disclosure report is made public by the Federal Election Commission.August 6, 2015 - During the first 2016 Republican debate, Trump is questioned about a third party candidacy, his attitude towards women and his history of donating money to Democratic politicians. He tells moderator Megyn Kelly of Fox News he feels he is being mistreated.August 7, 2015 - The controversy continues, as Trump tells CNN's Don Lemon that Kelly was singling him out for attack, "You could see there was blood coming out of her eyes, blood coming out of her wherever."September 11, 2015 - Trump announces he has purchased NBC's half of the Miss Universe Organization, which organizes the annual Miss USA and Miss Universe pageants.December 7, 2015 - Trump's campaign puts out a press release calling for a "complete shutdown of Muslims entering the United States until our country's representatives can figure out what is going on."May 26, 2016 - Secures enough delegates to clinch the Republican Party nomination.July 16, 2016 - Introduces Indiana Governor Mike Pence as his running mate.July 19, 2016 - Becomes the Republican Party nominee for president.September 13, 2016 - During an interview with CNN's Jake Tapper, New York Attorney General Eric Schneiderman says his office is investigating Trump's charitable foundation "to make sure it's complying with the laws governing charities in New York."October 1, 2016 - The New York Times reports Trump declared a $916 million loss in 1995 which could have allowed him to legally skip paying federal income taxes for years. The report is based on a financial document mailed to the newspaper by an anonymous source.October 7, 2016 - Unaired footage from 2005 surfaces of Trump talking about trying to have sex with a married woman and being able to grope women. In footage obtained by The Washington Post, Trump is heard off-camera discussing women in vulgar terms during the taping of a segment for "Access Hollywood." In a taped response, Trump declares, "I said it, I was wrong and I apologize."October 9, 2016 - During the second presidential debate, CNN's Cooper asks Trump about his descriptions of groping and kissing women without their consent in the "Access Hollywood" footage. Trump denies that he has ever engaged in such behavior and declares the comments were "locker room talk." After the debate, 11 women step forward to claim that they were sexually harassed or sexually assaulted by the real estate developer. Trump says the stories aren't true.November 8, 2016 - Is elected president of the United States. Trump will be the first president who has never held elected office, a top government post or a military rank.November 18, 2016 - Trump agrees to pay $25 million to settle three lawsuits against Trump University. The deal keeps the President-elect from having to testify in a trial in San Diego that was set to begin November 28. The settlement ends a suit brought by Schneiderman, as well as two class action suits in California. About 6,000 former students are covered by the settlement.December 24, 2016 - Trump says he will dissolve the Donald J. Trump Foundation "to avoid even the appearance of any conflict with my role as President." A spokeswoman for the New York Attorney General's Office says that the foundation cannot legally close until investigators conclude their probe of the charity.January 10, 2017 - CNN reports that intelligence officials briefed Trump on a dossier that contains allegations about his campaign's ties to Russia and unverified claims about his personal life. The author of the dossier is a former British spy who was hired by a research firm that had been funded by both political parties to conduct opposition research on Trump.January 20, 2017 - Takes the oath of office from Chief Justice John Roberts during an inauguration ceremony at the Capitol and delivers an inaugural address centering on the populist themes that fueled his candidacy.January 23, 2017 - Trump signs an executive action withdrawing the United States from the Trans-Pacific Partnership, a 12-nation trade deal negotiated by the Obama administration and awaiting congressional approval.January 27, 2017 - Trump signs an executive order halting all refugee arrivals for 120 days and banning travel to the United States from seven Muslim-majority countries for 90 days. Additionally, refugees from Syria are barred indefinitely from entering the United States. The order is challenged in court.February 13, 2017 - Trump's national security adviser, Michael Flynn, resigns amid accusations he lied about his communications with Russian ambassador to the United States, Sergey Kislyak. Flynn later pleads guilty to lying to the FBI.February 28, 2017 - Nominates Neil Gorsuch to replace late Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia.March 4, 2017 - Alleges on Twitter, without offering evidence, that Obama wiretapped his phones ahead of the 2016 election. "Terrible! Just found out that Obama had my 'wires tapped' in Trump Tower just before the victory. Nothing found. This is McCarthyism!"March 16, 2017 - The Trump administration releases its budget blueprint, with increases in funding for the military and cuts for agencies including the State Department, the Environmental Protection Agency and the Department of Agriculture.May 3, 2017 - FBI Director James Comey confirms that there is an ongoing investigation into ties between the Trump campaign and Russia during a hearing on Capitol Hill. Less than a week later, Trump fires Comey, citing a DOJ memo critical of the way he handled the investigation into Clinton's emails.May 2017 - Shortly after Trump fired Comey, the FBI opens an investigation into whether Trump "had been working on behalf of Russia against American interests," citing former law enforcement officials and others the paper said were familiar with the probe.May 17, 2017 - Former FBI Director Robert Mueller is appointed as special counsel to lead the probe into Russian meddling in the 2016 election, including potential collusion between Trump campaign associates and Russian officials. Deputy Attorney General Rod Rosenstein makes the appointment because Attorney General Jeff Sessions recused himself in March from investigations into Trump's campaign.May 19, 2017 - Departs on his first foreign trip as president. The nine-day, five-country trip includes stops in Saudi Arabia, Israel, the Vatican, a NATO summit in Brussels and a G7 summit in Sicily.June 1, 2017 - Trump proclaims that the United States is withdrawing from the Paris climate accord but adds that he is open to renegotiating aspects of the environmental agreement, which was signed by 175 countries in 2016.July 7, 2017 - Meets Russian President Vladimir Putin in person for the first time, on the sidelines of the G20 meeting in Hamburg, Germany.August 8, 2017 - In response to nuclear threats from North Korea, Trump warns that Pyongyang will "face fire and fury like the world has never seen." Soon after Trump's comments, North Korea issues a statement saying it is "examining the operational plan" to strike areas around the US territory of Guam.August 15, 2017 - After a violent clash between neo-Nazi activists and counterprotesters leaves one dead in Charlottesville, Virginia, Trump holds an impromptu press conference in the lobby of Trump Tower and declares that there were "fine people" on both sides.August 25, 2017 - Trump's first pardon is granted to former Arizona sheriff Joe Arpaio, who was convicted of criminal contempt for disregarding a court order in a racial-profiling case. Trump did not consult with lawyers at the Justice Department before announcing his decision.September 5, 2017 - The Trump administration announces that it is ending the DACA program, introduced by Obama to protect nearly 800,000 undocumented immigrants brought to the United States as children. Trump calls on Congress to introduce legislation that will prevent DACA recipients from being deported. Multiple lawsuits are filed opposing the policy in federal courts and judges delay the end of the program, asking the government to submit filings justifying the cancellation of DACA.September 19, 2017 - In a speech at the United Nations General Assembly, Trump refers to North Korean leader Kim Jong Un as "Rocket Man" and warns that the United States will "totally destroy North Korea" if forced to defend itself or its allies.September 24, 2017 - The Trump administration unveils a third version of the travel ban, placing restrictions on travel by certain foreigners from Chad, Iran, Libya, North Korea, Somalia, Syria, Venezuela and Yemen. (Chad is later removed after meeting security requirements.) One day before the revised ban is set to take effect, it is blocked nationwide by a federal judge in Hawaii. A judge in Maryland issues a similar ruling.December 4, 2017 - The Supreme Court rules that the revised travel ban can take effect pending appeals.December 6, 2017 - Trump recognizes Jerusalem as Israel's capital and announces plans to relocate the US Embassy there.January 11, 2018 - During a White House meeting on immigration reform, Trump reportedly refers to Haiti and African nations as "shithole countries." He reportedly says that the United States should get more people from countries like Norway.January 12, 2018 - The Wall Street Journal reports that Trump had an alleged affair with a porn star named Stephanie Clifford, aka Stormy Daniels. The newspaper states that Trump's personal attorney, Michael Cohen, arranged a $130,000 payment for a nondisclosure agreement weeks before Election Day in 2016. Cohen denies that Trump had a relationship with Clifford.March 13, 2018 - Trump announces in a tweet that he has fired Secretary of State Rex Tillerson and will nominate CIA Director Mike Pompeo as Tillerson's replacement.March 20, 2018 - A New York Supreme Court judge rules that a defamation lawsuit against Trump can move forward, ruling against a July 2017 motion to dismiss filed by Trump's lawyers. The lawsuit, filed by Summer Zervos, a former "Apprentice" contestant, is related to sexual assault allegations.March 23, 2018 - The White House announces that it is adopting a policy, first proposed by Trump via tweet in July 2017, banning most transgender individuals from serving in the military.April 9, 2018 - The FBI raids Cohen's office, home and a hotel room where he'd been staying while his house was renovated. The raid is related to a federal investigation of possible fraud and campaign finance violations.April 13, 2018 - Trump authorizes joint military strikes in Syria with the UK and France after reports the government used chemical weapons on civilians in Douma.May 7, 2018 - The Trump administration announces a "zero tolerance" policy for illegal border crossings. Sessions says that individuals who violate immigration law will be criminally prosecuted and warns that parents could be separated from children.May 8, 2018 - Trump announces that the United States is withdrawing from the Iran nuclear deal. "This was a horrible one-sided deal that should have never, ever been made," he says in remarks that, at times, misrepresent the international agreement's provisions.May 31, 2018 - The Trump administration announces it is imposing tariffs on steel and aluminum imported from allies Canada, Mexico and the European Union.June 8-9, 2018 - Before leaving for the G7 summit in Quebec City, Trump tells reporters that Russia should be reinstated in the group. The annexation of Crimea in 2014 led to Russia's suspension. After leaving the summit, Trump tweets that he will not endorse the traditional G7 communique issued at the end of the meeting. The President singles out Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau for making "false statements" at a news conference.June 12, 2018 - Trump meets Kim in person for the first time during a summit in Singapore. They sign a four-point statement that broadly outlines the countries' commitment to a peace process. The statement contains a pledge by North Korea to "work towards" complete denuclearization but the agreement does not detail how the international community will verify that Kim is ending his nuclear program.June 14, 2018 - The New York attorney general sues the Trump Foundation, alleging that the nonprofit run by Trump and his three eldest children violated state and federal charity law.June 26, 2018 - The Supreme Court upholds the Trump administration's travel ban in a 5-4 ruling along party lines.July 16, 2018 - During a joint news conference with Putin in Helsinki, Trump declines to endorse the US government's assessment that Russia interfered in the election, saying he doesn't "see any reason why" Russia would be responsible. The next day, Trump clarifies his remark, "The sentence should have been, 'I don't see any reason why it wouldn't be Russia." He says he accepts the intelligence community's conclusion that Russia meddled in the election but adds, "It could be other people also."August 21, 2018 - Cohen pleads guilty to eight federal charges, including two campaign finance violations. In court, he says that he orchestrated payments to silence women "in coordination and at the direction of a candidate for federal office." On the same day, Trump's former campaign chairman, Paul Manafort is convicted on eight counts of federal financial crimes. On December 12 Cohen is sentenced to three years in prison.September 5, 2018 - The New York Times publishes an op-ed by an anonymous Trump administration official who claims that there is an ongoing effort to thwart the president's worst impulses. Trump says the person who wrote the piece is "gutless."September 11, 2018 - Bob Woodward's book "Fear: Trump in the White House" is published. Several administration officials say that they are misquoted in the book.November 20, 2018 - Releases a statement backing Saudi Arabia in the wake of the murder of Washington Post journalist Jamal Khashoggi, a Virginia resident, killed in October at a Saudi consulate in Turkey. Khashoggi was a frequent critic of the Saudi regime. The Saudis initially denied any knowledge of his death, but then later said a group of rogue operators were responsible for his killing. US officials have speculated that such a mission, including the 15 men sent from Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, to murder him, could not have been carried out without the authorization of Saudi leader Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman.December 18, 2018 - The Donald J. Trump Foundation agrees to dissolve according to a document filed in Manhattan Supreme Court. The agreement allows the New York attorney general's office to review the recipients of the charity's assets.December 19, 2018 - Trump declares that the US has defeated ISIS and orders a "full" and "rapid" withdrawal of US military from Syria.December 22, 2018 - The longest partial government shutdown in US history begins after Trump demands lawmakers allocate $5.7 billion in funding for a border wall before agreeing to sign a federal funding package.January 16, 2019 - After nearly two years of Trump administration officials denying that anyone involved in his campaign colluded with the Russians to help his candidacy, Trump lawyer and former New York City mayor, Rudy Giuliani, says "I never said there was no collusion between the campaign, or people in the campaign. I said the President of the United States. There is not a single bit of evidence the President of the United States committed the only crime you can commit here, conspiring with the Russians to hack the DNC."January 25, 2019 - The government shutdown ends when Trump signs a short-term spending measure, providing three weeks of stopgap funding while lawmakers work on a border security compromise. The bill does not include any wall funding.February 15, 2019 - Trump declares a national emergency to allocate funds to build a wall on the border with Mexico. During the announcement, the president says he expects the declaration to be challenged in court. The same day, Trump signs a border security measure negotiated by Congress, with $1.375 billion set aside for barriers, averting another government shutdown.February 18, 2019 - Attorneys general from 16 states file a lawsuit in federal court challenging Trump's emergency declaration.February 28, 2019 - Trump's summit with Kim ends with no joint agreement after Kim insists all US sanctions on North Korea be lifted. On the same day, Trump's former attorney Cohen testifies before the House Oversight Committee presenting an extensive set of Trump's possible criminal liabilities.

I met the man who would be my husband when I was 18 years old. I suffered from undiagnosed narcolepsy and this contributed to the reasons why I stayed.These incidents are not in chronological order. No accounting of abuse is complete without including the abuse directed toward the narcissist’s own children. The significant others of the Narcissist are only one of many of the victims. The only truth he ever told me, was that no one else would love me the way he did.I have spent countless hours trying to figure out how my ex-husband has managed to do the things he has done, and exactly what he actually did in these situations. If anyone has an inkling into exactly what he has pulled off, please enlighten me.Those who have been involved with a narcissist know that the toughest abuse to explain is the chronic abuse that has plausible deniability built in. It is also the most damaging.The gas-lighting was a constant. He still is the most convincing liar I’ve ever known. He would be telling me something that I knew was not true, but the absolute sincerity and certainty I would see in his eyes made me doubt my own reality.My husband expected absolute loyalty. While I am loyal, I reserve the right to reject something that I feel is morally wrong. He insisted that I was supposed to back him regardless. This was always an issue between us, especially when it came to the ostracization of people who my husband was targeting. He had targeted his best friend because the guy failed to mow our lawn when he said he would. Because I refused to participate in the bad mouthing of this guy, I was in the hot seat. I simply could not go along with this type of petty meanness and this repeatedly got me into hot water.He believed that he should be able to do as he pleased. I was fine with that, but the rules did not go both ways. The Gander was free range, but the goose was always getting cooked.Of course, there was the favorite tool used by every narcissist…the silent treatment. The first few years it had the desired effect. As the years went by I began to look forward to the silent treatment. Despite the fact that you could cut the tension in the air with a knife, the silent treatment meant that for however long it lasted, I would not have to deal with the subtle and insulting innuendos. I would not have to recite the timeline of my days. I would not have to defend myself for buying the new sheets on the bed, or for purchasing a toy for our children. The silent treatment became a time of quiet silence from his unrelenting harassment.I was working at a record store when we first met. He gave me a list of items he wanted me to get him at my discount (he didn't give me any money). I later found out these were gifts he gave to different girlfriends. That year I received the only Christmas gift I would receive in the entire 14 years we were together. A professional photograph portrait of himself.I was the epitome of the perfect Biker wife. I was easy going beyond belief. My husband ruled the roost. I created the perfect home life.We were on our”honeymoon” in Puerto Vallarta Mexico. A group of our friends was meeting us in our hotel room. My new husband starts chopping up a pile of cocaine for snorting lines. Shocked and alarmed, I asked, “Did you bring that into this Country?” He responded, “No, you did. I put it inside your purse and YOU brought it into the Country”.After the birth of our first child, he insisted I obtain paternity test to prove he was the father. I remember dialing the doctors' office and asking about paternity tests. Suddenly I stopped mid-sentence and looked at the phone like it was something alien. I could not believe I was actually asking what I was asking! Then I said “Never mind”, and hung up the phone. There were times when I had brief moments of clarity.He became jealous of the time I spent with our children. I was not spending as much time with him. He forbade me to buy things for the children. This rule turned me into a liar. Eventually, he forbade me to put the kids in any kind of sports, because that too took my time away from him.He gave me the nickname”Dummy”. An accurate name since I stayed with him for 14 years.During the seventh year together, I received anonymously, a book in the mail titled “Men That Hate Women and the Women That Love Them”. This was the first validation I had that something was not right in our relationship.Early in the relationship, we reached the agreement that my earnings would be used to pay for our family living expenses and his earnings for saving and investment. There was no savings account with both of our names. There was just a pile of cash hidden somewhere.Whenever we had an argument, he would say, “You keep your things and I will keep mine”. Naturally, all the investments were in his name and the monthly payables and debts in my name.Investments ended up being motorcycles, muscle cars, boats, airplanes, or anything else my husband looked cool driving.He always made a show of discussing purchases with me, but it didn't matter what my opinions were, or how adamant I was that I didn't want to make a certain investment, in the end, my husband would buy it anyway.In 83 we purchased a rental property. The payment was $500 monthly at no interest. We rented the house for $600 per month.In 86 we purchased a property that had two commercial storefronts (for each of our businesses) and a house on the same lot. We placed $150,000 cash for a down payment and took out a $100,000 mortgage. The monthly payment was $1,200. I finally had something to show for all the years I supported the family.It was our routine that my husband took the children to the babysitter or to school in the morning, and I picked them up in the afternoon. There were occasions where I arrived at the school, waiting for the children to come out to be picked up, but there was no sign of our children. I would be frantic and go to the office only to find out that he picked them up early. Over time I realized he was doing this on days when he was angry with me. Once, I caught him at the park across the street from the school, watching me as I frantically searched for the children. Cruel.Throughout the marriage, my husband accused me of having secret bank accounts. I did not have extra money to put into a secret account. Cleaning our bedroom one day I came across documents opening one of his secret bank accounts.In ’86 my sister came to work for me. The plan was to teach her the business so she could open a business of her own. There is a reason for the old saying “Never go into business with family”. No other employee could ever have been capable of the kind of destruction to my business that my sister created. I loved my sister and trusted her completely. My sister embezzled a large amount of money from my business. She quit working for me and moved to Northern California with some of my accounts. Before leaving she went on a shopping spree using my credit cards. I previously allowed her to buy a new car in my name (because her credit was bad) and she stopped making payments. My sister contacted family friends and business associates and began a smear campaign. She also looked up the person running the DMV in Sacramento and to this day I do not know what she told this person, but suddenly I began having difficulty getting license plates for the trucking companies I represented. The IRS was also contacting me saying they had a report of tax fraud on my business. Dealing with the fall out was taking a tremendous amount of time and energy. Eventually, I simply could not take it anymore. I could not deal with the fallout and provide the time-sensitive duties that the business required.Throughout this time, my husband was making remarks that he did not believe my version of what was occurring, and I was desperate to obtain proof.I referred my clients to an old employer of mine and began the process of transferring my clients' files. A few weeks later, I received a letter from this old employer telling me that she had come across a handwritten letter my sister had sent to a client of hers. The Trucker had given my sister money to pay his license and registration fees. My sister had provided him with a fraudulent registration with a note attached to it that said, “Here is a registration to operate on until I get you your permanent registration. If you get caught using it, tell them you got it from Janet at Truck Licensing Services. She lives and works in Glendora CA and she has blond hair”. This evidence became crucial to reversing much of the problems created by my sister. When I showed the letter to my husband he seemed surprised. Any time I would talk to him about what was happening, he would laugh. He seemed to get great pleasure and amusement out of this thing that caused me so much pain.The loss of my business marked the first time in the marriage that my husband was required to pay the families monthly living expenses. My husband was not happy about it. We rented out the building that once housed my business for $1,000 per month, bringing what we had to come up with for the mortgage payment to only $200.He would spend hour upon hour each evening berating me for the loss of my business. I regularly cried myself to sleep each night.I gave our bills to my husband to write checks out. He wrote the checks and about a month later I began to receive late notices from our creditors. I went to my husband and asked if he sent the payments out late. That’s when he told me he had not mailed the payments at all.We had our normal monthly bills and the property taxes were also due. He kept me up all night arguing. He wanted to just pay the property taxes and I wanted to pay the bills and get a loan to pay the tax bill. Finally, I begged for him to allow me to sleep awhile and we could finish the discussion when I woke. When I woke up and went into my office, my secretary informed me that she got the taxes in the mail as my husband told her to.I had begun seeing a therapist. Each office visit I would go in and spend the entire time crying. I decided to write out the past year of what had gone on in my life. By the time I was finished, I was seriously pissed off at my husband and I was ready to leave. When I left the marriage I believed that the worst was over. How naive I was. The final time we spoke to each other he told me “He was going to teach me poverty”. I responded, “Given the choice of living with him or living with poverty, I would opt for poverty.I moved out of the house with the children because my husbands business was on the same property. The unpaid past due bills were in my name so I had to move in with a friend who already had utilities in their name. My Ex-allowed me to collect the monthly rental of my old business building as child support. I took out a $5,000 loan, which allowed me to pay some of the delinquent debts and I was able to get utilities in my name again. There was enough left over to place 1st and last on a house to rent.One day my attorney office called to tell me there was an emergency hearing that was being held the next day and I was required to appear. Upon my arrival, I was handed a copy of an Order to Show Cause and a declaration submitted by my husbands' attorney. My husband told a story of my children living in a crack house. He said I was shooting up drugs in front of the children, having group sex and orgies in the children's presence, and that the children had witnessed a fight between two of my boyfriends and been so frightened that they crawled out of their bedroom window at 2 o’clock in the morning. The children were removed from my custody that afternoon pending investigation.I drove home in a state of shock. When I pulled into the driveway a police cruiser pulled in behind me. I was taken into custody on a warrant. The warrant was actually a body attachment from an old case in which I failed to appear as a witness in a spousal abuse case against my husband. It was a Friday night so the court would not sort it out until Monday. To this day my rap sheet erroneously shows this case as me who had assaulted my husband.I was only allowed to visit my children with supervision, and I was not allowed to talk with them about the allegations. Finally, a hearing was held and the boys were questioned. My youngest son was asked if he ever saw his mother using a needle. He responded, “Yes. She sews sometimes”. A Judge spoke to the children in chambers and when the judge returned to the court my ex-husband was reprimanded and told never to lie to the court again. My attorney said custody was being awarded to my husband. I said, “Do you have any idea what this man is really about?” I was told if I objected to his custody, the children would be placed in foster care and it would be years to get them out.I was questioned by my state-appointed representation about my drug use. I admitted that I used amphetamine daily. I was asked why, and I told them “Because I can’t wake up”. I used amphetamine since the age of 15. I began having sleep issues around the age of 12, and by my freshman year of High School, I was failing all of my classes. One day I took some of my brother’s Ritalin and went to school. My grades went from “F” to “A” overnight. I have used amphetamine ever since. My husband was my supplier for the last 14 years. I thought that by telling the courts the truth, that someone would help me discover the reason why I could not wake up. That's not what happened.Without my children, I no longer had a reason to strive. I let the rented house go and rented a couch to sleep on from a friend. My husbands smear campaign had new fuel and the entire town was stoking the flames.My attorney suffered a nervous breakdown during these proceedings. The last thing he filed was a request for an order for my ex-husband to pay the payments on the second mortgage I had taken out to pay the old utility bills.The divorce case was now a complicated mess and I could not find an attorney to take the case without a $5,000 retainer. The case was stagnating from 1990 to 1993. I found a lawyer who agreed to take the case in 1993 for $3,000 retainer.In 1993 I went to a real estate agent to obtain the current market values on the properties we owned. That was when I learned that I no longer owned the property called the “family home” by the courts. The house had been foreclosed on by the second mortgage holder. All notices were sent to the address where my ex was living with our sons. My share of the property was sold at auction to my mother in laws best friend.When we were together, my husband had kept the seedier side of the Biker Community segregated to the area of his repair shop. The children and I rarely interacted with people in the gangs. When the children went to live with him all of that changed. The various Clubs were a part of my children’s lives now. They also became a thorn in my side. I was constantly harassed any time I was seen in public. Eventually, it got so bad I moved 500 miles away, making it more difficult to see my children.I learned that my Ex had our sons take out life insurance policies on each other. They were required to pay the premiums with their own money. I suspect he did this knowing that if one of the boys died, the insurance company would hand him the check, not our minor child.My Ex took my son’s to an attorney’s office when they were still kids to have them sign papers “so they could receive an inheritance from him upon his death”. My son’s simply signed whatever papers their father put in front of them. I suspect the signatures were needed for some nefarious purpose. I also suspect the Ex husbands living trust is a vehicle to obtain life insurance on all of the family members.I managed to save enough for a used car, and six months later the car was stolen on the same night that the Club my Ex was involved with was spotted at the local pub.The divorce began in 1989 and was not final until 1997. I was the only party to bring in the documentation of our debts and assets.It’s commonplace to award a fraction of the married couples community property assets to a spouse who admitted the regular use of an illicit drug. The Judges would see the imbalance of monetary awards as a form of equity and reparation to the innocent spouse (in this case, my narcissistic psychopath Ex-husband).The final settlement in the divorce was a joke. I was stuck with all of the community debt. I received none of the family home equity.I received enough money to pay my attorney fees which totaled $50,000 and cash to me was $10,000.I received nothing for the Motor Cycle repair business I helped him build.I also was forced to remain partners with my narcissist in the rental property, but I never received any portion of the rents received over the years.I was awarded our 5th wheel camping trailer, but he was awarded the truck that hauled it.I was awarded a $20,000 drag racing motorcycle and my narcissist handed it to me in a milk crate. When I objected to this as unacceptable, the Judge yelled at me to just take it.The final settlement stated that the court was giving my ex-husband as much time as he needed to make the equalizing payment.In 1999 I went back into Court because my ex-husband was not providing our children with basic human needs. He had not taken them for basic healthcare checkups. He was not providing personal hygiene needs like shampoo, soap, etc. The children did not have clothing and my youngest son’s feet had become misshapen from wearing shoes that were too small. The Court accepted a note from my exhusbands mother, that said the boys were regularly seen by doctors and my concerns were dismissed. California Statutes require that Child Protective Services investigate any allegation of neglect or abuse, yet the Court ignored the LAW for the narcissist.There was one point I was arguing and the Judge was forced to rule against the narcissist. The Judge turned to my ex-husband and said, “I’m sorry, but she is within her rights on this”.I was ordered to pay child support, even though my ex-husband had been collecting the $1,000 monthly rent on the building that was once my office, and was previously considered child support when I had the children.The Court's bias toward my drug use cost me everything I worked so hard for all of those years that I was functioning at a fairly high level. Eventually, it also cost me my freedom.In 2001, before turning myself in to do my prison time, I signed my interest in the rental property over to my two sons. I knew that once I was in prison my narcissist would swindle me out of the property. I prayed about it, and the answer I received was to give it away. It was much less painful to lose this last asset when I was able to choose who I lost it to. I executed a quit claim to my sons and gave it to their father, telling him to teach them about real estate.It was not until after my release from prison in 2003, that my youngest son turned 18 and came to live with me again. He had been living with me for just a few weeks when with dawning horror, I came to realize he was suffering the same symptoms that I suffered from the age of 12. I sat my son down and told him my experience with excessive daytime sleepiness and I promised him I was going to get to the bottom of what was going on with us. I went to Parole and told them my history. I hoped they would know what it was since they had vast experience with people using amphetamine. Parole gave me the run around for the next 18 months. Frustrated, I began using our symptoms as search criteria on Google. Narcolepsy kept being returned. Long story short, both my son and I underwent sleep studies and were diagnosed with Narcolepsy.From the moment I was diagnosed, there have been people in law enforcement who have created problems in my ability to obtain treatment for the disease. The Drug Enforcement Administration writes letters to my doctors. Apparently, my file has been flagged and I’ve been labeled a drug seeker. When I was denied Medi-Cal, I was informed at a hearing that a panel of doctors deemed my narcolepsy to be “insignificant” and “the disorder had no major effect on my ability to function in life”. Flabbergasted, I turned to the Judge and said, “No doctor, not one, ever attempted to speak to me to ask me what the effects were from having narcolepsy. I went to PRISON behind this thing, and believe me when I tell you that my experience in prison was not insignificant to me. As a teen, I went from failing all of my classes in school, to a student at the top of my class, after finding amphetamine. Medication for me is the difference between utter failure and shining success. The difference between the two could not be described as “insignificant”. The Judge granted me the Medi-Cal, but the victory was moot because I still could not find a doctor to treat me. It was six years since the diagnosis when a sympathetic doctor confided that he doubted I will ever find ANY doctor willing to treat me. The DEA has a definite “chilling effect”.I discovered in 2004 that my narcissist had never given our sons the quit claim I executed in 2001. The property was now entirely in my Narcissist’s living trust.My narcissist wanted to sell the rental property and told our sons they would each get $5,000. Their actual share of the property was $50,000 each. For some reason, my signature was needed, despite me already releasing interest in 2001. There was a court hearing and the Court required that I execute another quit claim in 2006.For some reason, escrow was still requiring that I sign documents for the sale. The thing was, the documents they wanted me to sign always had “Narcissist Living Trust” typed above or below the place where they wanted me to sign. After months of duress, I finally signed the documents on the condition that each of my sons would receive $50,000 and I would receive $25,000.I was not allowed to see any of the escrow documents for the sale of this property. My youngest son has managed to come across a few documents. He found one document that shows me as a borrower on the rental property.The proceeds for the sale of the rental came from a company that handles 1031 exchanges. The check was made payable to my Ex husband and my oldest son. My youngest sons name was not on the check. My Ex-husband took my youngest son to a small business bank and had him open an account in the names of our two sons.During this time I experienced an adverse reaction to a new narcolepsy medication called Xyrem. In short, I experienced a prolonged psychosis. I moved out to the desert and my son moved back in with his father.I did not know if I was going to survive the psychosis and I decided to leave all of my worldly belongings with my son. He was working a job that took him out of town during the week, and he only returned on the weekends. Upon his return one weekend, he found that his father had moved my things to his vacation home and had given away the rest.My Ex moved a new girlfriend into his home. His girlfriend suffers from OCD and cannot tolerate the movement of any item in the household. She will become hysterical if an item is moved even a few inches from its original place. Unfortunately, my son is a whirling tornado of movement in the environment. Friction between the two ensued. My son told me his father’s girlfriend had thrown bleach into the washer with his dark clothes. The girlfriend set off fumigation bug bombs in the house, leaving my son inside sleeping. My son owned a truck and a motorcycle. If he took his truck anywhere when he would return there would be damage to his motorcycle. When he took the motorcycle, there would be damage to the truck. My son was placing the blame for these incidents entirely upon the girlfriend, but I believe he doesn’t want to entertain the idea that his father is either putting the girlfriend up to these things or the sole person responsible. I believe he was the person doing these things and framing her.My youngest son began looking for property to purchase. He found one he liked for $210k. It had two houses on the lot. My son put his $50k and I put in 20k for the down payment. The real estate agent put him in touch with a loan broker who said she could arrange a mortgage with an $800 monthly paymentBy the time escrow closed the payment was $1500 monthly. After moving in we discovered the houses were severely termite damaged and the County assessor estimated the property value at land value of $75k.We attempted to litigate the issues and we were informed we had no standing.Meanwhile, the property went into foreclosure and was sold at auction to a Michael Jackson. I ran a search for other addresses affiliated with this person and a P.O. box came back. I ran a search on the P.O. box, and the address that was once my office was returned. The man who purchased the property used to rent my office from my ex-husband. A coincidence?I believe that somehow, my ex-husband became the lender for the property my son purchased. He then used predatory lending practices on his own son, driving the monthly payment double what my son agreed upon. Keep in mind that this is also the son who has narcolepsy.My son almost lost control of his motorcycle, after having left the motorcycle at his father’s home for a few days. Anytime he reached speeds over 20 mph, the steering became uncontrollable. He drove the MC to his father’s repair shop and asked him to take a test drive because he felt like he was going to die driving. His father refused, and told him “Bring the bike back in two days”. He didn’t say, “Leave the bike here and I’ll give you a ride home”, he just watched him leave on the bike. The following day my son put the MC on blocks so he could examine what was causing the problem. He noticed that there was road dirt on the spokes, but in spots, the road dirt was smudged clean. That’s when he realized that all of the spokes on the front wheel had been loosened. He took the bike to a different repair shop and was told someone had to deliberately do that to the spokes.6 months before that incident, my son was involved in a motorcycle accident, but cannot remember the accident itself. He was not able to examine the wreckage because his father sold the bike and shipped it overseas before he was able to get out of bed. There is very little left of a motorcycle after it is involved in an accident. This makes it nearly impossible for forensics to determine the cause of an accident. His father is well aware of these facts. Even if there was evidence of tampering that was detectable by the Police, the investigation would only point to his fathers' girlfriend as the person who wished harm to my son.I did not find out about the following incident until 2010 when my son finally told me of it. One night, my Ex husbands motorcycle shop was broken into and a couple of motorcycles stolen. To get the bikes back, their father decided to do a home invasion on the suspect's house. My two sons and their father dress up in black and gather together the guns they will take. Both of my son's are wearing Kevlar vests (bullet proof). Keep in mind that their father has enough inventory in the shop to build at least twenty bikes just like the ones stolen. At this point, the home invasion doesn't have anything to do with the vehicles and has everything to do with their fathers' ego. Right before the three of them are going to storm The door, their father turns to the youngest boy and asks if he can borrow his Kevlar vest. In silence, my son handed his vest to his father. His father placed the vest on himself, and the three of them entered the house. They were able to get one of the bikes back. My son, his brother, nor their father, ever spoke of the vest again. It was seven years before I learned of the incident. My youngest son kept that painful experience bottled up inside of him. To speak of it meant having to acknowledge that his father deemed him to have the least value.During the same time period, several friends of my son mentioned to him that his father was spreading strange rumors. One friend who had not seen him for a while was surprised to find my son looking physically fit and presentable. He told my son that my Ex was telling people that my son was a Hype (injecting drugs intravenously). My Ex knows a great number of people, so this rumor was carried far.My son found correspondence from the Internal Revenue Service, in regards to an irrevocable trust, with my son's name on it. My son has never created an irrevocable trust.My daughter in law was visiting me when she asked me about the Narcissists living trust. She indicated the Narcissist had included her in the trust “so she could collect an inheritance upon his death”. I told her that I believed the trust was a vehicle to obtain life insurance. Six months later, my 32-year-old daughter in law died unexpectedly, leaving three children without a mother.After the foreclosure, I went to live with my recently widowed eldest son, and three of his four daughters. I was filling the role that their mother left vacant. I was taxiing kids, taking them to doctors, cleaning the house, cooking meals, doing yard work, you name it, I was doing it.After the foreclosure, my youngest son moved into the old “family home”. My ex-husband purchased a home in an exclusive neighborhood several years earlier. The ex attempted to turn the family home into a “gentleman's club”, which is a fancy way of saying brothel. The house even had a strippers pole. When that didn’t work out he took to renting out rooms in the now seven bedroom house. All the bedrooms were rented when my son arrived, so he slept in the hallway for a while. He eventually got one of the rooms, but three months later his father told him that all of the tenants had to move because he was renting out the entire house (except for one large room that was rented by a business) to one person.My son moved into a temporary place for three months and then became homeless. He and his girlfriend were camping out in the San Gabriel Valley mountains. He told me he found a motor home that he wanted to buy, so I gave him $300 to buy the vehicle and have a roof over his head.I was spending a great deal of time investigating (as much as possible when you have no funds) the various situations created by the narcissist that made absolutely no sense. My oldest son was getting aggravated because I was not handling as much of the work as I previously had. I was also feeling very guilty that I was living in a nice home, while my youngest son was homeless and struggling. My oldest son was very angry when I told him I was leaving to be homeless with his brother.My oldest son has taken on many of his father's narcissistic traits. He is the designated Golden Child and believes it is proper for him to receive special treatment. During my stay with the GC, he sold my car and kept all of the money. Never once did he offer to pay me for my time spent doing chores for him. During the three years, I lived with him and took care of his children the only thing I asked for was food for my cat. He also paid for me to buy some makeup and a bra. He treated me like I was his maid. My oldest son thinks that it is okay for him to take his brother's property. He is constantly stealing things from his brother. His father has taken his weaknesses and compounded them.The family dynamic the narcissist has created destroyed the once close relationship between my sons. It is heartbreaking.I am sure you have discerned by now that my youngest son is the designated scapegoat. This son has been the target of his father's narcissistic bullying since he was eight years old. As a child, he was someone blessed with a purity of soul, and a propensity towards honesty. It was always apparent to me that he was older than anyone else in the family. He has a strength of character that defies the ugly family dynamic.I moved into the old, gutted, motorhome with my son and his girlfriend. My son had parked the motorhome on the property that was the “family home”. The people that were planning on renting the house gave the narcissist $20k to remodel the house but never moved in. They were afraid of the other tenants. The Narcissists Motorcycle repair shop and the tattoo parlor on the property tend to attract some tough looking people.One day my son had his daughter for the weekend. All four of us were in the motorhome when it began to rain. The motorhome was leaking like a sieve. It was coming down real hard. I thought about the house sitting empty and thought, screw this. I broke into the house and made my granddaughter a dry bed to sleep in. That is how we ended up living inside the house.I find myself getting increasingly depressed living here in the house that I RAN away from thirty years ago. My Exhusband never put any money that he gained from renting the structures on the property, back into the property for maintenance. The exterior has not seen a drop of paint. The house was infested with roaches and rats. The septic tank has not been pumped since we purchased the property in 1986. Consequently, raw sewage backs up into the crawl space on a regular basis. The moisture in the crawl space has created mold issues. During a recent rain, my son pointed out that in places where water was puddling in the yard, each puddle was squirming with larva of some kind. My ex-husband took what was once a beautiful property, and turned it into a toxic waste site.