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To avoid having evidence of atrocities on paper. They knew war crimes trials were coming and they were burning everything they could. One point, my Dad in WW2 said, “We ran the whole war on verbal orders”. True in the late 30’s Hitler wrote an order to execute mentally retarded. With that T4 order out, the church, German people and German Army Officers raised hell. He learned from that, verbal only.For example, the only existing minute of the Wannsee Conference were found in the files of the Minister of Foreign Affairs.Best book:The Participants: The Men of the Wannsee Conference by Hans-Christian Jasch and Christoph KreutzmüllerAnother investigator found the copies of the four Eisengruppen and the numbers killed in Russia. There were no survivors so the prosecution in the Ohlendorf Case used these documents to provide the guilt of those responsible.Also in Japan, at the end, orders went out to burn any records, and to move file cases to ensure nothing had fallen between. It finally took a US woman historian to find the order several years ago, that in the event of an invasion by the Allies, all Allied POWs would be executed.

Even when we talk about 4 divisions of symptoms of PTSD, I include the event because, in order to have PTSD diagnosed to you, you also need to meet the criteria for the event. I find this to be super unfair. The DSM has such a design that it’s very easy to meet criteria for most of the disorders, but in the case of trauma, it not only ignores traumatization that happens after prolonged periods of time, but it also restricts the events to be just a few tragic episodes without considering the experience of the person.EVENT: Exposure to actual or threatened death, serious injury, or sexual violence in one (or more) of the following ways:Directly experiencing the traumatic event(s).Witnessing, in person, the event(s) as it occurred to others.Learning that the traumatic event(s) occurred to a close family member or close friend. In cases of actual or threatened death of a family member or friend, the event(s) must have been violent or accidental.Experiencing repeated or extreme exposure to aversive details of the traumatic event(s) (e.g., first responders collecting human remains; police officers repeatedly exposed to details of child abuse). Note: Criterion A4 does not apply to exposure through electronic media, television, movies, or pictures unless this exposure is work-related.RE-EXPERIENCING: Presence of one (or more) of the following intrusion symptoms associated with the traumatic event(s), beginning after the traumatic event(s) occurred:Recurrent, involuntary, and intrusive distressing memories of the traumatic event(s). Note: In children older than 6 years, repetitive play may occur in which themes or aspects of the traumatic event(s) are expressed.Recurrent distressing dreams in which the content and/or affect of the dream are related to the traumatic event(s). Note: In children, there may be frightening dreams without recognizable content.Dissociative reactions (e.g., flashbacks) in which the individual feels or acts as if the traumatic event(s) were recurring. (Such reactions may occur on a continuum, with the most extreme expression being a complete loss of awareness of present surroundings.) Note: In children, trauma-specific reenactment may occur in play.Intense or prolonged psychological distress at exposure to internal or external cues that symbolize or resemble an aspect of the traumatic event(s).Marked physiological reactions to internal or external cues that symbolize or resemble an aspect of the traumatic event(s).INTRA-PSYCHIC AVOIDANCE: Persistent avoidance of stimuli associated with the traumatic event(s), beginning after the traumatic event(s) occurred, as evidenced by one or both of the following:Avoidance of or efforts to avoid distressing memories, thoughts, or feelings about or closely associated with the traumatic event(s).Avoidance of or efforts to avoid external reminders (people, places, conversations, activities, objects, situations) that arouse distressing memories, thoughts, or feelings about or closely associated with the traumatic event(s).ALTERATIONS IN COGNITION & MOOD: Negative alterations in cognitions and mood associated with the traumatic event(s), beginning or worsening after the traumatic event(s) occurred, as evidenced by two (or more) of the following:Inability to remember an important aspect of the traumatic event(s) (typically due to dissociative amnesia, and not to other factors such as head injury, alcohol, or drugs).Persistent and exaggerated negative beliefs or expectations about oneself, others, or the world (e.g., “I am bad,” “No one can be trusted,” “The world is completely dangerous,” “My whole nervous system is permanently ruined”).Persistent, distorted cognitions about the cause or consequences of the traumatic event(s) that lead the individual to blame himself/herself or others.Persistent negative emotional state (e.g., fear, horror, anger, guilt, or shame).Markedly diminished interest or participation in significant activities.Feelings of detachment or estrangement from others.Persistent inability to experience positive emotions (e.g., inability to experience happiness, satisfaction, or loving feelings).ALTERATIONS IN AROUSAL & REACTIVITY: Marked alterations in arousal and reactivity associated with the traumatic event(s), beginning or worsening after the traumatic event(s) occurred, as evidenced by two (or more) of the following:Irritable behavior and angry outbursts (with little or no provocation), typically expressed as verbal or physical aggression toward people or objects.Reckless or self-destructive behavior.Hypervigilance.Exaggerated startle response.Problems with concentration.Sleep disturbance (e.g., difficulty falling or staying asleep or restless sleep).

Thanks for the A2A Rhonda.Yes. Narcissists have a pathological need for control and they purposely manipulate their victims in very cruel ways in order to get what they want.They do not care about the impact on the victim. They have no empathy. A narcissist gets angry at the victim when she/he tries to call him/her out on his behavior. He quickly turns the tables, aggressively verbally attacks the victim, and makes the victim feel guilty for trying to stand up for her/himself. The narcissist makes the victim feel responsible for his emotional well-being.This happens consistently, and over time this leads to the Fear, Obligation and Guilt (FOG) trap that many victims of narcissists get sucked into.A narcissist never feels like he has done anything wrong. He truly feels he is the victim. He rages against life, and rages, seethes, and abuses the one who has been lured into loving him with his manipulative love-bombing.“Since [narcissists] deep down, feel themselves to be faultless, it is inevitable that when they are in conflict with the world they will invariably perceive the conflict as the world's fault. Since they must deny their own badness, they must perceive others as bad. They project their own evil onto the world. They never think of themselves as evil, on the other hand, they consequently see much evil in others.” - Dr. M. Scott Peck, People of the LieOn behalf of every person who has been subjected to a narcissist’s darkness, cruelty, manipulation. and toxic abuse, I offer the following:Anyone who would blame the victim for “taking it”, “not standing up for her/himself”, “bringing it on her/himself because she didn’t leave”, and “allowing it” - speaks from ignorance, and has no understanding of: the complexity of love, the psychology of abuse, or narcissistic personality disorder.I have read comments in various forums and groups that attempt to “equalize the blame” and shift responsibility to the victims of narcissists. This is harmful and devastatingly invalidating to the victims, many of whom have developed C-PTSD from being in a relationship with a narcissist.Allow me to emphasize this: many victims have developed C-PTSD from being in a relationship with a narcissist.That a human being, by being involved in a relationship with a narcissist, could develop the same debilitating anxiety disorder that torture victims develop, is staggering to think about. I think this makes it clear for anyone who may be in doubt about it, who the real victim is in a narcissistic relationship.“Evil people hate the light because it reveals themselves to themselves. They will destroy the light, the goodness, the love in order to avoid the pain of self-awareness.” - Dr. M. Scott Peck, People of the Lie