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Currently, it seems to be that Parliament has descended into what is known as a “bunker mentality”, where they make up their own reality based on misunderstandings, guesswork, and fantasies, but since they are only talking to people in the same bunker, there is never a reality check. Today, they are still debating exactly how the backstop is going to be removed or materially changed, even though such a thing is not even remotely possible. The only options are to move May’s famous “red lines” materially, cancel Brexit, or No Deal. This is reality. Parliament is refusing to acknowledge this, and keep debating their fantasy world.Looking further back on this, as far back as I’m able to go (which is the late 80s, when I started reading British press), I say the underlying issue is that British media have been feeding massive amounts of disinformation on what the EU is and how it works. This goes for both pro- and anti-EU press. While, for instance, the Daily Mail only print stuff they made up themselves, and wouldn’t dream of checking any of it against the real world, the Guardian is hardly any better, and keep insisting that yes, maybe there are monsters under the bed, but they aren’t as bad as all that. The level of ignorance in Parliament is astounding, and the level of ignorance among the British public is incomprehensible.So the difficulty that emerges is that everyone has made up their own fantasy about the EU, and are utterly unable to cope with it being confronted with reality. Every two weeks or so, at least the Guardian publishes a column with a clearer view of what is actually happening, but there is no indication that they are being listened to.

Yes its possible. But only if you are intellectually super smart.One of my friend was in this category. He got around 1500 air in iit. But he never studied more than 10hr/week for self study and 6hr/week for vmc classes. Thats it. I know him personally(bcz same city, same founder batch of vmc), and it is true he never studied sincerely for jee. He only attended vmc classes(total 250) and gave few tests.Never practiced problems with pen. Used to solve problems orally in mind. His question paper used to have only ticks no writing. I also learnt this art from him😁which proved highly beneficial in jee😉, even now I do the same. We used to compete. Who will solve in less time. Rule was don’t lift pen whatever the situation. Hence, in 2yrs both of us used only one 20 rupee note book for rough work (feel proud for this😎).Even after selection when we got into iitd, incidentally we got same hostel (girnar). There super smart kids who got around 50–200 air were astonished by his intellect. Declared he is just BRILLIANT, we are nothing in front of him(which is true, I also believe same)I am not revealing his name, bcz he will kill me if he gets to know that I made it public that his AIR was accidental🤣. However he himself acknowledges this fact and we are trolling him since then over this.FINAL MESSAGE : do you need to do the same? NO. Big NO. Focus on your studies and don't ask such silly questions. If you are in super smart category, well and good, otherwise work smartly and get a seat in iit.

I would have liked if my parents said something like this:"Hey Mandy,Let's talk about some differences in people for a minute. What kinds of hair do people have? What kinds of eyes? What about how tall people are?Well, even though we can't always see it, people are made differently on the inside too - what kind of stuff is on the inside? Heart, lungs, stomach, and BRAIN!Brains can be different in all kinds of ways. It's a very complicated organ and there are so many pieces that make it whole. Even if a few of those are different, it can make people think very differently. Imagine how many possibilities there are for kinds of brains.Do you think your brain is different? (I knew I was different at about age 5 in my Kindergarten classroom, so I do think this is an appropriate question to ask). How is your brain different?That's right! You are very smart and don't have trouble learning anything new. You can read alone for hours and enjoy the company of adults more than children. The way your brain has grown makes you very special in a lot of ways.There are also some things you might struggle with. I've noticed you are very sensitive to the textures of foods - especially bananas and tomatoes; you won't wear anything but the softest stretchiest pants; and you walk around during recess by yourself talking about math problems you don't really understand instead of playing with the other kids.Sometimes it's difficult for you to talk to other kids and that's something you'll have to pay extra attention to. We will help you work on that and find ways for you to practice in safe environments until you feel confident and comfortable.There are all kinds of brain differences people can have. In your case, it's called Autism and there's lots of people who have a brain similar to yours. Some of them have written books about some challenges you're more likely to face, so you can be prepared ahead of time. (Therapy as an option for them to consider could be brought in at this point).Anytime you have questions or concerns or just want to talk more about it, we are here. We love you and we want you to have a happy, healthy, and successful life."Obviously the conversation should be adjusted for age appropriateness and you should check that the child is following and understanding the conversation. Ask questions and ask if they have a question. Encourage the dialogue often and keep a positive attitude about it.Depending on comprehension level, you could also turn the conversation around on NTs. What strengths and weakness do they have? What could mom and dad work on? (In my case we probably would have had to use someone else as an example because I suspect both my parents are on the spectrum - but you get the idea).As a child, I already knew I was different. I needed my parents and guardians to acknowledge this and explain to (not just tell) me why I was still EQUAL.Regarding friends and family: need to know basis.