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Parents have more influence over their kid's self-esteem than they realize. The easiest thing a parent can do to help their kids have strong self-esteem is to support and love them no matter what. Regardless of their grades or their behavior, continue to show affection and love. Don’t let anything your kid does affect the love you show them.Parents also need to remind their kids that they are good enough for anything they want to do. Telling them that they are valid and perfect just the way they are will help self-esteem.One of the most significant areas that parents don’t realize is how often children see how they interact with themselves. If a parent talks about not liking their size, appearance, hair, face, or anything they aren’t happy about, kids pick up on this.Children are sponges and absorb what is happening in their surroundings. If one parent talks negatively to another parent, kids see this, and often internalize it. This is why it is crucial that parent’s do not argue or fight in front of their kids.Parents can help their kids have strong self-esteem by allowing them to be independent and a part of the family when it comes to responsibilities. Giving your kid chores that are age appropriate and holding them accountable will help them learn how to care for their surroundings. Be sure to compliment them and give them feedback on what a great job they did. This will improve your child’s responsibility and self-esteem.

He is absolutely correct in his demand to be called “Dad”. He is their Father. Basic rules of respect. Your husband is not asking for anything unreasonable and it is very unsettling to hear that you argue with him over the fact that he wants to be called Dad. I would absolutely hate for my child to call me by my first name. And I would never allow it either. I am not my child’s friend, or play mate or neighbor. I am a Parent. Period. Respect boundaries and teach your children that while they will meet many Bobs and Johns and Jacks along the way, they will always have only one Dad.***EDIT*** Its amazing to see so many people supporting traditional family values. Thank you! I recently read a wonderful post by the fellow Quoran - copying it right here. In my opinion it is one of the best explanations to the subject at hand.“The major difference I see is that American parents have given away their power in a very youth-oriented culture. We want to seem young, cool, and hip. We have commercials in which we sneer at the very idea of becoming like our parents, that is, the very idea of growing up. European parents don’t seem so terrified of being seen for what they are—adults. They don’t seem to be afraid of disciplining their children (in non-physical ways), and in including their kids in everyday aspects of family life (like doing chores and running errands).In contrast, we are so busy trying to be our kids’ friends that we neglect our real duties as parents: Teaching our kids the difference between right and wrong, shaping their characters, teaching them limits, and socializing them by giving them age-appropriate responsibilities.We allow kids to call us by our first names so they see us as just big (but uncool) peers, so why should they bother listening to us? We allow them to ignore adults when told to behave. We chastise other adults when we see them appropriately disciplining their children. We are quick to accuse other parents of being negligent or abusive when they try to rein in their kids’ out-of-control behavior.”

My parents came from toxic parents. My father was raised by an emotionally detached couple, and shipped off to boarding school when he was very young. My mother had parents who would hit her, sometimes with weapons (brushes, shoes, and so on) right into her teen years. Both sets of parents were extremely strict. My mother and father have given me details about their childhoods which makes it difficult for me to like and respect all four of my grandparents.They recognised their unpleasant upbringing and deliberately parented us. They read books about parenting. They made decisions together about our discipline. We were not hit. We were given freedom to have our own opinions, and had behavioural boundaries that were age-appropriate. We had chores, we got pocket money, we knew that we were loved, and we wanted to be good.The desire to be good was not because we were afraid of punishment (there was no grounding, no being sent to a room, no hitting), but because the rules were clear and we understood why they were in place.Of course they were not perfect - my father was undiagnosed and untreated for bipolar disorder, and my mother is still undiagnosed for general anxiety. This manifested in various ways, but I always knew that my parents were my safe place.